Stepping up for the females

[Raiden Wolf]

I'm sorry that not everyone can take a little off colored joke half heartedly. It's the internet, come on now.

The furry community isn't supposed to be a tight knit family like group. It doesn't work that way. It's like trying to fit a square peg into a circular hole. Not everyone is going to like every single view, discussion or comment.

In regards to "Now if you kindly would stand aside and l keep your topic bash comments to yourself that would be a great help thanks", should I just go make my own thread and say you're not allowed in it? Because that's kinda what's going on here.


p.s. White Knights never get laid by the damsels they save.



Edit: I think I will take my bow out of this thread.

Using the Internet as an excuse still does not justify peoples bad behavior as acceptable. So because its the internet people can't be offended by distasteful remarks? Unless indicated nobody can tell if its a joke to start with. I mean seriously would a little common courtesy kill that much?

That's not even a valid response. That's a sheer cop out to discard peoples concerns. The community is still a community and like it or not everyone should at least be civil about things. So having a discussion such as this is healthy it encourages
growth and promotes people to be civil towards one another. Not everyone has to agree but at the same time take into consideration bad behavior on all aspects is considered unacceptable otherwise it wouldn't be labeled as such.

You had no grounds to fall back on so you throw that response out? Seriously? In an important discussion we don't walk in and go "this is pointless remove it". How is that anything to contribute to the topic at hand? that is classified as spam which it degrades the topics logic which is never welcome.

lol a white knight as you say should never have such expectations.   8) Besides I believe the ladies have handled this topic themselves very nicely without help from any knights :)

so in conclusion and to not violate this topic into an on going debate any further I will not continue this discussion. :3

[Dinsu]

You don't like vaginas? Then good for you, don't have sex with girls. But girls are MORE than just private parts.

REPRESENT!  (:

[Xen Garden]

Well said Zenia. GIRLS UNITE! :highfive:

[Sevrin]

REPRESENT!  (:

Well said Zenia. GIRLS UNITE! :highfive:

i'm not really like this whole empowered woman routine, were all friends here, its not you vs anyone, you've let everyone know that you think their behavior was offensive and i'm sure they will all make an effort to refrain from such behavior in the future, can we just get back to being friends now?

[Xen Garden]

Once in a while the minority group deserves a little unity. Especially if we work together to overcome a problem so we feel more welcome in a community. Now that the problem is resolved, I think the minority group deserve a little celebration. Just putting it out there.

[Dinsu]

What's wrong with being empowered? Just because we're empowered as women doesn't mean you can't be empowered as men or that we can't be empowered as living beings together!

Like I said before- Unless we can have infallible dignity in ourselves we will have challengers. No one was attacking men, we are just celebrating femininity.

I've said it before and I'll say it again: people suck
men tend to be more aggressive than women, but the general population doesn't go around raping everybody, some people are fucked up and there's not much to be done about that.

Don't joke about rape. Please. It is very hurtful to some people and we know it's only a half joke. Please do some research before you make comments about it not being a big deal.
1 in 6 american women will be the victim of attempted sexual assault.
15 of 16 american rapists will never spend a day in jail.

This is just in america.. I'm guessing the statistics in third world countries are even more alarming.
PLEASE remember that women basically just got rights in Canada about 100 years ago with the right to vote.

I'm not bawing or anything.. Just pleading that you have some understanding.

[Lt ReiStark]

Girls just don't become one of those crazy feminists groups, the ones that seem to say "Girls are better than boys so let's talk about trying to become the same class as men... GET AWAY YOU UGLY DICK WIELDER!"
thats a little too far for the whole empowering thing, just letting you know there are girls out there who take it too far. but i don't think i need to worry about you guys :) *Was joking about crazy people in the states*

[EmoFox]

the funny thing about that is, its true. feminazis. I once read a blog that stated all sex instigated by a man was rape. :roll:

[Sevrin]

Don't joke about rape. Please. It is very hurtful to some people and we know it's only a half joke. Please do some research before you make comments about it not being a big deal.
1 in 6 american women will be the victim of attempted sexual assault.
15 of 16 american rapists will never spend a day in jail.

i'm not saying its not a big deal, the joke was just me trying to lighten the mood a little
i'm saying that some people are fucked up, and that there will always be people like that, its not really fair to compare normal people to rapists, everyone thinks rapists are scum, there's no argument there.

[Ember]

I know this has been brought up in a previous topic, but I think that it's time we actually get into a bigger deeper discussion about this and have something resolved about this problem. I have noticed the HUGE amount of anti-rapism on these forums. It seems that everywhere I look on here, all I ever see anymore is the non-raping furs calling the rapists gross because they have rape and a lack of consent.

STOP IT!

I can't stand it anymore. I feel so unwelcome on these forums and in the general fandom just because some immature unraping guys won't GROW UP.

And yeah I AM A WHITE VANNER, but I HATE it when I am identified as icky, or a rape-monger instead of a person and judged because of things I choose to do. I am a human being, just like anyone else on here is. Nobody likes it when people use "rapist" to describe something stupid. And I think the forums have done a good enough job not using that word for that reason. I am not trying to start drama, I am just trying to find a solution to stop this ongoing problem.


Also I don't CARE what kind of bashing and flaming and hate I'll get out of this thread. I am doing the right thing by standing up for what I think is right. EQUAL RIGHTS plzkthx. So go ahead and send me messages and comments if you don't like what I have to say.

[Lt ReiStark]

Im ok with other people liking rape... just don't rape me, or anybody else who does not like rape. it can make a good roleplay through text... but IRL its illegal because its a form of assault, for good reason.

[zenia]

Ok with people liking rape? How could anyone LIKE rape? *does not compute*

[Lt ReiStark]

Ok with people liking rape? How could anyone LIKE rape? *does not compute*

i know, but i don't judge people based on things they can't change, like fettishes.

[velvetkytten]

liking rape ????? then it isn't RAPE... duuuuuuh.

fetish is different if everyone is consenting...

[Lt ReiStark]

[Edit] everything i said, replace "rape" with "psudo-rape"