Stepping up for the females

[Drake Wingfire]

This has been a issue/subject thats been around since like the beginning of the fandom. I honestly don't think a majority of gay guys go around going "vagina is nasty" though I did see this once sprout up on FA of all places (yeah say what you want, I still like FA)

Just a rule of thumb here.. a comparison if you will.. Remember back in school, those boys who had to act big and tough for fear of being called gay, the ones who had to go on about "my dady owns a hummer and I got a hot big boobed GF and I love hockey!" remember how that shit generally stopped once you got outta high-school?

Take that and mash it into its gay equivalent.. IE, all the insecure high-school gay boys (god fucking damn I hate myself for generalizing age here as its one of my 7 deadly sins *stabs face with soldering iron*) all the ones who have JUST started to find guys.. or maybe just gay furry stuff to their liking, they are the ones running around pushing it so hard and going "ewww vagina" because they are trying to act like they are some sorta seasoned gay guy and pretty much in this fandom.. yeah being gay is sorta par for the course or some shit.. I don't really know. But what I am getting at is the ones who are rampantly running around slandering fems and waving their dicks and asses around generally are the "new-gays" and the younger ones.. Im pretty sure I even had a phase like that when I was new and getting my bearings.

[EmoFox]

^ quite possibly the most sensible contribution to this thread by a guy. Thank you.

[Xen Garden]

Why not volunteer somewhere? I'm sure Community Critters could use you as a spotter or suiter if you have a suit. You can talk to RainRat for more info.

After a long day of volunteering, you feel exhausted, yet really good at the same time. It's kind of like just after you finished a hard workout.

I don't own a fursuit. And volunteer work doesn't help with my problems. I've volunteered at a couple places, and yeah they were fun, but never fixed my problems in life. Thank you for your suggestion anyways.

[SkyWolf-01]

Have yew tried gettin' laid? :3

[EmoFox]

i have to agree, sex does make everything seem that much less important for a few hours. It's actually known for keeping depression in check, XD

[Xen Garden]

I already have a partner I can be sexually active with. It just doesn't happen much (Like once or twice a month) since we live in different cities and we both don't drive. And Translink doesn't run through Abbotsford.

You people make it sound like I don't have a sex life. Am I really that ugly?

Also I find it kinda weird to be suggested sex from people on a public forum.

[Sevrin]

i'm not sure why you would jump to the conclusion that they think you are ugly...

something you could try is smiling, even if you aren't happy, just force yourself to smile, do it for like a half hour and see how you feel, it works for me.

[EmoFox]

ooo wow, you do look on the dark side don't you? :/ Everyone has "dry spells" even super models. and as good as sex is, its not good for long term depression control, because it requires an almost inhuman amount of sex. Trust me, i know from experience, :roll: lol

[Lt ReiStark]

for men its said that guys who masterbate at least twice a week are more active, happy, and less likely to have prostate issues. those effects minus the prostate health are probably the same for women.

[zenia]

for men its said that guys who masterbate at least twice a week are more active, happy, and less likely to have prostate issues. those effects minus the prostate health are probably the same for women.

Actually, masturbation has little to no medical benefits for women like it does for men. At least that is what I have read. I, for example, am just fine without... although real sex would be great.

[EmoFox]

Actually Reistark is correct; the endorphins and other hormones released during orgasm in both men and women are beneficial to mental health. They help you sleep, calm anxieties and stress, etc.

[Selkit]

Evidently, I chose a weird moment to poke my head back into BCFurries. I'm not going to comment on some of the negative issues sexuality can bring up; It's absolutely not something you should wholly base a relationship on, put it to you that way.

[Temrin]

Evidently, I chose a weird moment to poke my head back into BCFurries. I'm not going to comment on some of the negative issues sexuality can bring up; It's absolutely not something you should wholly base a relationship on, put it to you that way.

^This. :3
I whole heartedly agree.

[Selkit]

On second thought, perhaps I should elaborate; It was one of the contributing factors to the loss of my marriage. Contact that managed to revolve around overt sexuality during the brief periods she and I were together, over the course of a long distance relationship. The "more" that was needed above and beyond simple sexual contact, didn't stand strongly enough to hold it together, among other factors. Absolutely nothing wrong with a healthy sex life, but it's part of overall health and good existence, not a means to it. That said, it's also a part of my life that's sorely absent at the moment, alas. Perhaps we should have a separate thread for this vein of discussion; We've wandered off on quite the tangent here.

[Ember]

for men its said that guys who masterbate at least twice a week are more active, happy, and less likely to have prostate issues. those effects minus the prostate health are probably the same for women.

Or maybe men who are happier masturbate more. Correlation != causation.