"Im Single but im Taken".......-_-

Started by Van_Fox, December 10, 2010, 04:01:02 PM

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Roffo

Quote from: ethan on January 24, 2011, 05:58:32 PM
meh its the internets  you never know whats real and what isnt and i dont see why anyone would bother with internet relationships soundslike a whole kettle of issues and problems in itself
real life dating is where its at.

Akonite

I dont post my relationship status. If you dont know it, I dont know you well enough, and its none of your business.

Social sites are making personal information easily accessible. Only a few years ago you had to actually have a conversation with someone to find something out about them. I Like having a private life outside of the public domain.

Selkit

Oh hey, a thread necro. Now, um. Just to salt things a little bit (No offense, but I find this whole thing patently absurd; why do you need to hang a 'date target' bullseye on every single person around you casually?), how many of you can actually tell me what my own relationship status is at a glance? Do you need to be able to, and if you don't know, do you really have any business knowing?

FurryJackman

Just wanted to revive this thread to still say that the trend is and always will be Van_Fox's tagline: "Why are all the females taken? T^T"

Now that I've gone through 2 failures from 2 completely different people that I have met in real life at one point or another, I'm starting to lose hope. (or maybe that's my 3AM hopeless mind talking) This isn't even internet dating, this is Fursuit Bowling dating. (since both my recent rejections came from people I met through bowling)

So as to not hijack the thread, anyone interested in giving helpful advice to me should PM me that advice.

Brittany-shadowwolf

BooHoo. Life goes on. Females are taken, It happens.
People are lazy and don't change there status, ext... There are MANY reasons.

If you have had more than 2 failures, your doing something wrong. Try something different.
Nuff said. Life is harsh. BAWW me a river.  :angel:

LOTS OF LOVE
~~shadowwolf

FurryJackman

#20
Well, to those that are curious, one was well documented in the "Rejection, need help..." thread and the most recent one was documented in the comments of one of my FA journals. (2nd newest one as of this posting)

But think of it this way: What if you saw so many couples in your age range and that it was "the cool thing to do"? Wouldn't peer pressure cause you to cave into desperation? (I cave to peer pressure on things I'm interested in all the time, hence why I needed an iPad, before the peer pressure came...) I felt I was on the edge of "belonging" to the couples community at one time. Now, 2 people giving rejections later, I feel so out of touch with people of my own age group and I feel sick looking at couples now. I don't want to feel more introverted, play TF2 more, and be alone... I want to find "The One".

Anyways, this can split off into a whole other thread if this gets carried away, so please PM me helpful tips to this so that this thread doesn't go off-topic.

Edit: Again, sorry about speaking out my mind getting too detailed.

Temrin

I'm technically single, but my heart is taken. Meaning, Theres someone i want, therefore i'm not interested in someone else.

-shruggs-

For some, perhaps its their way of saying "I'm open to some things, so i keep it as single, but i don't want romance, etc."  Who knows.
Really, its nothing to really get upset about. Sure its annoying if your looking, but if your looking you are bound to get turned away from some, so just accept it and move on? XD

HexV

Quote from: Temrin on February 16, 2011, 01:50:56 PM
I'm technically single, but my heart is taken. Meaning, Theres someone i want, therefore i'm not interested in someone else.

-shruggs-

For some, perhaps its their way of saying "I'm open to some things, so i keep it as single, but i don't want romance, etc."  Who knows.
Really, its nothing to really get upset about. Sure its annoying if your looking, but if your looking you are bound to get turned away from some, so just accept it and move on? XD
Honestly, I think it's just the internet's cruel way of reminding me of my "Sorry I have a boyfriend" curse =\ Oh well, least t3h interwebz gives me fair warning xD
AM NOT A BUNNY!

AM NOT A RABBIT!

I AM HARE! HAAAAAARE!!!

Temrin

Quote from: HexV on February 17, 2011, 08:30:31 PM
Quote from: Temrin on February 16, 2011, 01:50:56 PM
I'm technically single, but my heart is taken. Meaning, Theres someone i want, therefore i'm not interested in someone else.

-shruggs-

For some, perhaps its their way of saying "I'm open to some things, so i keep it as single, but i don't want romance, etc."  Who knows.
Really, its nothing to really get upset about. Sure its annoying if your looking, but if your looking you are bound to get turned away from some, so just accept it and move on? XD
Honestly, I think it's just the internet's cruel way of reminding me of my "Sorry I have a boyfriend" curse =\ Oh well, least t3h interwebz gives me fair warning xD

Ahah. Man. I'm sure by now you want that phrase to die XD
one day. You wont hear that phrase. And there will be rejoicing :3

HexV

Quote from: Temrin on February 17, 2011, 08:32:12 PM
Quote from: HexV on February 17, 2011, 08:30:31 PM
Quote from: Temrin on February 16, 2011, 01:50:56 PM
I'm technically single, but my heart is taken. Meaning, Theres someone i want, therefore i'm not interested in someone else.

-shruggs-

For some, perhaps its their way of saying "I'm open to some things, so i keep it as single, but i don't want romance, etc."  Who knows.
Really, its nothing to really get upset about. Sure its annoying if your looking, but if your looking you are bound to get turned away from some, so just accept it and move on? XD
Honestly, I think it's just the internet's cruel way of reminding me of my "Sorry I have a boyfriend" curse =\ Oh well, least t3h interwebz gives me fair warning xD

Ahah. Man. I'm sure by now you want that phrase to die XD
one day. You wont hear that phrase. And there will be rejoicing :3
Oh Tem... Oh Tem... you have no idea just how badly I want that to happen xD I'M LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONELY!!!!!! ._.
AM NOT A BUNNY!

AM NOT A RABBIT!

I AM HARE! HAAAAAARE!!!

Akonite

*sets up one of his new woman traps on the thread*

Anyone for bacon?

Temrin

Quote from: Akonite on February 17, 2011, 08:43:32 PM
*sets up one of his new woman traps on the thread*

Anyone for bacon?

-WoW Worgen- "Bacon!? BACON?! Who's got the bacon!!??-

ahahahaha.


@Hex: I know *pets*

Skywind

Quote from: FurryJackman on February 16, 2011, 06:58:13 AM
Well, to those that are curious, one was well documented in the "Rejection, need help..." thread and the most recent one was documented in the comments of one of my FA journals. (2nd newest one as of this posting)

But think of it this way: What if you saw so many couples in your age range and that it was "the cool thing to do"? Wouldn't peer pressure cause you to cave into desperation? (I cave to peer pressure on things I'm interested in all the time, hence why I needed an iPad, before the peer pressure came...) I felt I was on the edge of "belonging" to the couples community at one time. Now, 2 people giving rejections later, I feel so out of touch with people of my own age group and I feel sick looking at couples now. I don't want to feel more introverted, play TF2 more, and be alone... I want to find "The One".

Anyways, this can split off into a whole other thread if this gets carried away, so please PM me helpful tips to this so that this thread doesn't go off-topic.

Edit: Again, sorry about speaking out my mind getting too detailed.


I understand what you are saying I think.

But I think the best way to deal with it is to stop trying to.

I my self have been single for ever. And watched many people get together and brake up. Yes its lonely yes I feel left out and left behind but I find I let that get the better of me to much. all we can ever do is try to be happy with who we are.  and like it or not a being in a relationship dos not make you any more or less who you are and as nice as it wold be to have someone to share my feelings with I only have my self to depend on. If I can not make my self happy then how can I expect someone else to make me happy.

The only way I can think of is to just be my self and wate... and hope someone will find me.
till then Ill just be my self. its the only thing I can be.

FurryJackman

Since I posted that, I have pretty much no choice but to be introverted at the moment since:

1. I have a TV Diploma to finish.

and

2. If I "make a move", it's too sudden.

I pretty much have to give up now and hope for my well being becoming good enough to survive to my late 20s to late 30s. AKA, not getting into an unstable relationship now.

Akonite

Quote from: FurryJackman on February 17, 2011, 09:52:46 PM
1. I have a TV Diploma to finish.

You can get a diploma in TV? How many hours do you have to watch? I may have a doctorate.