I have rely upset a friend

[Skywind]

I have rely upset a close friend. someone I would consider family as much as I would my brother or sister.

I have never seen them as upset as they are now and they refuse to talk to me.



My behavior has been bad lately. I have been rude and inconsiderate of others.

I fell behind in my school work haven't been keeping up on my responsibility and have just been retreating into gaming to avoid dealing with my life.

How can I fix this. I don't want to live like this any more I am forgetting my self and pushing away the people closest to me...

[Temrin]

Well, first things first. Whatever you did to make your friend so upset with you, you should apologize (profusely?) and try to make up for it :/

If you don't want to live like how you are living, then you should definitely change that. Limit your game time. DEAL with your problems, don't let them fester and get worse. Homework and school is VERY important. You need to make sure you get that done! Ask for help if you need it. Bug your teachers.

Theres not much other people can do but support you and occasionally kick your butt, telling you to do what you need to do. The simple answer is, YOU need to fix it. But that doesn't mean you are alone in it.

If you want to change enough, you will :3 Its not meant to be easy, but it'll be worth it! I can definitely attest to that :3

Good luck! And don't loose hope. You can make your life the way you want it. Your friends are important, don't let them go without a fight :3

[Skywind]

I cant apologize to them they will not talk to me. Evry time I try they just hang up before I can say anything.

[EmoFox]

try talking to their face, maybe? Email? voicemail? leave a message with their mother?

[H u nn Y]

I cant apologize to them they will not talk to me. Evry time I try they just hang up before I can say anything.

Ahh, I have the same situation with a friend of mine who I really cherished my friendship with, and now, altogether she's a different person, I can't even talk to her period, so I'm asking my friends when the best time would be to approach her. It's been over a year now that she hasn't talked to me, and I'm hoping that we can be friends again. Though what happened between her and I is probably way more different than what happened between you and your friend. A few things that you can try and do is just email the friend from a different hotmail account, and make it so that the very first line of the email is stating that they should read the whole thing before closing it and deleting it. If that doesn't work, you could always do what I'm doing and have another friend or close person between you two to talk to that person  :-\ hopefully things work out for you~ good luck  :-[

[Skywind]

i do not think that will work. considring i have been asked by them not to evin try contacting or they will change ther mail, phone number, ex

all i can rely do is wate I dont want to drag my friends into having to be the go betwen.

but it is going to be difucult to hang out with my friends now as now we cant all be around at the same time......

witch makes me sad

[tester]

Only real way is to say it face to face, when you go through an email or txt msg, your just trying to hide your self, you have to talk to the person in person. Yes it may be hard, I had to do it once, but once you do it you will feel better, then only time will tell. Now with the gaming, I have that problem, you have to find something that doesnt involve electronics thats fun, Me, I loveeeee anything that can kill me (adrenaline junkie), just find something that you love doing, and do it, set your heart to it and dont look back at gaming. It will be hard but if you can manage to do it, you are free.

[Skywind]

I do not have any problams apoligising i. person. However I am not given the chance to as when i try to call I am hung up on before i can say a word.