Regret

Started by FuriousPanda, January 24, 2011, 12:24:37 AM

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FuriousPanda

Have you ever rejected anyone, and then thought about it, and wish you had taken them instead?
I'm experiencing that right now.

zenia

Nope... 'cause no one has wanted me long term.

FuriousPanda

Quote from: zenia on January 24, 2011, 12:55:25 AM
Nope... 'cause no one has wanted me long term.

o..oh... ><
I'm sorry...

terutt

I've experienced the opposite. I've accepted someone into my life, despite my initial impressions, only to regret it for almost half a year.

I've often found that your first instincts of people exist for a reason.

As an addendum. Don't give up. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't spend your life thinking about one white whale.

FuriousPanda

Quote from: terutt on January 24, 2011, 02:36:19 AM
I've experienced the opposite. I've accepted someone into my life, despite my initial impressions, only to regret it for almost half a year.

I've often found that your first instincts of people exist for a reason.

As an addendum. Don't give up. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't spend your life thinking about one white whale.

haha, thank you :3
I'll never give up~

Moonlight

I have a similar story to that of Terutt, but I got over it a lot quicker. We're still friends, but our relationship can never be the same again.
Of all the pictures on the internet, none of them could even remotely depict the contents of my mind.

EmoFox

Quote from: FuriousPanda on January 24, 2011, 12:24:37 AM
Have you ever rejected anyone, and then thought about it, and wish you had taken them instead?
I'm experiencing that right now.

Sort of... I was in a fantastic relationship when this guy I'd been crushing on for years previously admitted that he liked me. I turned him down, the relationship I was in went south... And I spent a couple of years wondering "what if". Got over it around new years actually.
Whether you think you can, or you think you can't, either way you're right.
Laugh, and the world laughs with you. Cry, and the world laughs harder.

FuriousPanda

Quote from: EmoFox on January 24, 2011, 02:10:20 PM
Quote from: FuriousPanda on January 24, 2011, 12:24:37 AM
Have you ever rejected anyone, and then thought about it, and wish you had taken them instead?
I'm experiencing that right now.

Sort of... I was in a fantastic relationship when this guy I'd been crushing on for years previously admitted that he liked me. I turned him down, the relationship I was in went south... And I spent a couple of years wondering "what if". Got over it around new years actually.

Ahh, I'm sorry to hear that :/
My first boyfriend used me to make another guy jealous, I've been paranoid ever since. -.-

EmoFox

oh, no, it turned out fine in the end. I went to see my "what if" guy just after new years, and don't regret it anymore, :b
The relationship I was in that went south didn't end there (they never do, haha) and things between us got worked out eventually. But I still wondered. Now I can enjoy my family in peace, without wondering, :b it really is a happy ending, XD
Whether you think you can, or you think you can't, either way you're right.
Laugh, and the world laughs with you. Cry, and the world laughs harder.