eHarmony Crap

Karo the Dingo · January 24, 2010, 08:54:47 PM

So im on the dating survive eHarmony just to have a good laugh to see how they would set me up with. but... eharmony doesn't give you the opion to seek: Male Male or Female Female

*grumbles*

KoutaKun · January 24, 2010, 09:45:20 PM

that sucks man. so e-harmoney isnt same sex friendly?? that really sucks * pats back*

Some Guy · January 24, 2010, 11:15:30 PM

eHarmony is a christian-run dating service website =/ thats why it isnt same sex friendly...

Xen Garden · January 25, 2010, 05:43:46 PM

Try plenty of fish, they let you do same sex, and it's free!

TarekCoyote · January 25, 2010, 06:51:41 PM

I saw ads on tv about a free eharmony weekend thinger so I gave it a shot. It's nothing but crap anyways, even with the "free" weekend you couldn't see potential matches pictures, you still had to pay for that.
Annoying pos eharmony is.

But ya, plenty of fish, whether for a joke or serious, that's actually a successful one (my dad used it to meet his current GF)

Xen Garden · January 25, 2010, 07:37:02 PM

I know many people that use it, and they all found wonderful girlfriends/boyfriends. I don't need a dating site to find someone though. I already have too many people that like me, and it makes me sad to tell them I'm not interested.

Blue Dragonwolf · February 20, 2010, 02:37:37 AM

*big sigh* Ya, I tryed that site for a whole year but it was a no go, because of my job and sleeping in the daytime I have 0 chance to find a mate, I'm on christianmingle.com but that too seems to be a no go.

Not that I'm saying "poor me" I'm just feeling that the chances of this dragonwolf finding someone will be like wining the 1.000.000 at a scrach and win. Partly because I'm a christian, partly cause I'm not bi or gay, partly cause of my job and partly cause of my age that I feel doomed, I'll still keep looking sure but I'm not having any hopes much.

Blue · February 20, 2010, 04:00:08 AM

In my experience its when you stop looking that the right person finds you... I met Kyris under really odd circumstances, and really, anything is possible. And I don't think that being a Christian or the job you do should ever hurt your chances at meeting Mrs. Right. You ought to lose the negativity - stop thinking that you are not worthy, or that it is hopeless, and you will see.... Call it my hunch *grins knowingly*

:3

mediar · February 20, 2010, 10:34:02 AM

Ah, the good 'ol church.. knows what is best for everybody! ::)

Xen Garden · February 20, 2010, 12:19:53 PM

I agree with Blue. Once I stopped trying to look, I had people try to come after me. And I'm happy with the results because of it. I saw which guys wanted me for me and the ones who wanted me just to get laid. It took a while, but it was well worth the wait.

Rukario · February 20, 2010, 12:49:33 PM

Yeah I signed up as well for their free weekend thing. I found the majority of their questions on their stupid survey to be total BS, I never finished it. Now they pester me with at least 2-3 emails a day for me to finish, even after deleting my account. I was unaware that it was Christian-run; that explains a lot. FFS I'll be 40 next year, and still single! Even so, I'm probably too cynical to get into another relationship again.

Blue · February 20, 2010, 02:44:56 PM

Quoted by Mediar:
Ah, the good 'ol church.. knows what is best for everybody! ::)

I never said that, I just don't think that your religion should necessarily define you. I am not one to say "I am not going to date that man" because of his dogma, I feel that somewhat shallow. I will only say that when the guy says "You are going to hell when you die because of your beliefs, let's get some coffee sometime?" lmao :3

(p.s. that's never happened to me, just an example lol)

Xen Garden · February 20, 2010, 03:19:49 PM

Religion is only important to me when it comes to dating because people bash at the fact I practice Wicca. People seem to think it's a devil worshiping religion.

If the person doesn't care on the other hand, then I don't find religeous beliefs to be all that important.

Blue · February 20, 2010, 03:49:32 PM

I agree on that, Wrath :birdy:

mediar · February 20, 2010, 06:14:44 PM

Quote from: Blue on February 20, 2010, 02:44:56 PM
Quoted by Mediar:
Ah, the good 'ol church.. knows what is best for everybody! ::)

I never said that, I just don't think that your religion should necessarily define you. I am not one to say "I am not going to date that man" because of his dogma, I feel that somewhat shallow. I will only say that when the guy says "You are going to hell when you die because of your beliefs, let's get some coffee sometime?" lmao :3

(p.s. that's never happened to me, just an example lol)

I was just making a silly, anti-religion quote, not directed at anyone and the smiley was supposed to be the eye-roll one.

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"You are going to hell when you die because of your beliefs, let's get some coffee sometime?"

Ahaha awesome line!

In all honesty I don't care what anyone's religion is or what they believe in. Just don't try to force it on other folks, that I dislike very much.