Place to crash.mom went critical again!

Ruffus_Delta1990 · July 04, 2015, 02:29:23 PM

:/ mom's back in ICU...her liver failed again....waiting on a liver now....doctors are not optimistic she will survive be reopened back and attempting this surgery.
She is heavily sedated with breathing tube. She dosen't know people are there.

RainRat · July 04, 2015, 02:50:45 PM

I'm in Burnaby; if that's close enough, you can stay here.

Star Wonder · July 04, 2015, 03:26:59 PM

I'm in Surrey, not as close as Rain is but I thought I'd offer. We have room on our couch at The Pound!

Ruffus_Delta1990 · July 04, 2015, 03:32:03 PM

Thank you so much everyone <3 <3

Star Wonder · July 05, 2015, 03:13:49 AM

Quote from: Ruffus_Delta1990 on July 04, 2015, 03:32:03 PM
Thank you so much everyone <3 <3

Let us know if/when you find a place so we're not all worried! :3

Ruffus_Delta1990 · July 06, 2015, 02:40:01 PM

Thank you all for your support..... mom didn't make it,I didn't make it down in time to see her before she passed....I won't need a place now....

Mosesj · July 06, 2015, 03:51:38 PM

Damn man. I'm really sorry to hear that :c I went through that feeling too recently.

I know it hurts, it's this bitter pain inside you where the world does feel like it stopped. You should hang out with friends, maybe take some time off work. Losing a parent can be hard, you might not be yourself for the next couple weeks

Nostalgicmon · July 06, 2015, 03:59:44 PM

Very sad to hear of your mom's passing. My condolences go out to you and the rest of your family. Just know that the furry community here in BC is very open and supportive about these sort of occurrences and many will able to lend you a paw in need of help if you need it, myself included.

Samurai Kai · July 06, 2015, 06:40:43 PM

I am TRULY sorry for your loss. I truly am, I will never understand what it must feel like to lose someone so close... seriously, if you need someone to talk to, I'm here. We're *all* here for you man. Just know that she wouldn't want you to be sad about it love.

Star Wonder · July 06, 2015, 09:26:17 PM

I'm so sorry to hear that. If you need anything please let me know.

Ruffus_Delta1990 · July 07, 2015, 10:41:11 AM

Ten minutes before we pulled the plug the surgeon said he wants to try n save her!!!!!!!!!
New update:Mom's stable atm.
They have her belly wide open still from surgery.
but vacuumed so not to let bacteria in. She goes for another surgery in 48-72 )hours.
I'm so bloody happy to see her!!!!!
...the one surgeon said there was no hope...the other surgeon walked in on the meeting we had to decide when to pull plug and said I wanna try n save her....we were so happy when he said that... there's still hope.

WriterAxis · July 07, 2015, 03:21:08 PM

Really hoping for the best for you and your mom. If the surgeon thinks he can save her, I'd say there's a very good chance they will be able to.

Star Wonder · July 07, 2015, 10:34:43 PM

I hope for the best for you and your mom! Please keep us updated! <3

Samurai Kai · July 08, 2015, 07:52:56 AM

OH MY GOSH THAT'S GREAT NEWS! AND ONE GREAT SURGEON! I'm seriously hoping for the best! Crossing my fingers!

Ruffus_Delta1990 · July 09, 2015, 09:05:03 AM

No more breathing tube now!!!!!!.she goes to get galbladder removed tho in the next.