This Furry Doucher gotz it wrong lol

[Blazingfoxx]

So apparently im like that "A-hole" type furry and i should change my fursona (Fox) thing  because it doesn't suit me... okay?
Lol, anyhow just got in this random argument with some doucher, iunno i was pretty baked but because of the way i think about life it makes me an a-hole which is like I dont take poop from others. In a world we live in its no nice fantasy world, its a cold lonely world and unfair and harsh. I learned to earn happiness you just got to stop caring for things and walk over people who try and mess around with you. You got to fight to be free and happy.
This whole fox thing is not just a cartoony fursona its my spiritual guide a symbolical thing to me that symbolizes happiness and freedom which is what i try to live up to.
Apparently to this random furry doucher he says im not your (Average) Furry and im the type to be looked down upon the furry community and everywhere else to well i say to heck with that.
a community shouldn't be about judgment and ranking themselves its about enjoying life in a more fun way and getting to know others not all that other bullcookies its suppose to make life less stressful and help you know you're not alone.
I guess I thought I should share this if anyone thinks like that random low life did now im gonna smoke another J, peace. x3

[Drake]

Unfortunetly, Furs have taken it to far in many diffrent times of the fandom.

[Blazingfoxx]

lol seems that way  l3

[Ember]

*sigh* furries :\

[Vanilla Skunk]

*sigh* furries :\

You ok, Ember? You're starting to sound like a broken record.

[Wyrd-Hotd]

The thing with stuff like that, really just is that for alot of people, they need to find something to make them "better" then others so they can feel importance... at least, thats what it seems like to me.  I dont particularly understand "competition" like that, the only forms of competition i dont mind are sports and racing XD

[Drake]

The thing with stuff like that, really just is that for alot of people, they need to find something to make them "better" then others so they can feel importance... at least, thats what it seems like to me.  I dont particularly understand "competition" like that, the only forms of competition i dont mind are sports and racing XD

Agreed

[Kaji]

Agreed, far too much judging within the fandom sometimes. But it can't be helped in some cases.

[Ember]

*sigh* furries :\

You ok, Ember? You're starting to sound like a broken record.

You keep hitting the same button on the jukebox and you just might hear the same song over and over.

[Drake Wingfire]

I have seen and experienced this in more than a handfull of occasions, I would say the furry fandom as a general is more likely of an accepting place, and like others and you have sorta said, its the specific douches that really ruin it all, its all just about trying to shovel through the coal to find the diamonds in all honesty.

Like, in the fandom people mostly just get the odd person dissing them for their fursona or its appearance or silly things like difference of opinion, where as I have personally had people look at me and treat me like I was some sorta 2nd class dragon in any sorta Otherkin orientated place, just for the most pointless reasons like my lack of an epic "history" or the fact I tend to be more lively and fun loving than any "serious dragon" should be, basically because I didn't fit the typical bill that the old-farts of those groups preached about to its members or gave the impression there of.

Sorry if I have sounded like I was attacking ya or anything, I actual do respect peoples beliefs and I have my own spiritual beliefs.. I just no long associate myself with certain groups because I have realized im not one of them, Im my own dragon who will never again try and fit into the mold of somone else's ways. We are all our own people/furs/scalies and we should be proud of who we are. ^.=.^

What im getting at is that every group or sub-division their of in the example I gave is notorious for their own kinds of pure idiocy and insensitivity, I would toss in a line like "just gotta learn to deal with it" but really at best I think all one can really do is just edge and tip-toe your way around the mine field, trying to avoid the people/bombs inside of it and leave the bold and egotistical ones to trip on a drama-bomb that they planted themselves.  :laugh:

[Blazingfoxx]

aha totally, pretty much a fandom is no different than society you gather a bunch of people with same interests but besides that you still get that whole society bit still in a fandom because well, were humans and pretty much follow a bizarre instinctive pattern and have a crazy complexed mind.
You still got people in the fandom thats going to run down all over your beliefs just like people would do in society with religion and all that. I guess the only thing that you can do is if you have a very valuable belief just keep it to yourself so it cant be destroyed by others and live up to you and only you not caring what others say about you.
but besides all that focus out the negativity pull back in as much positivity in as a fandom is there to help reduce as much negative energy for you and just have fun be yourself meet others who seem more reliable and decent ands party like an animal or get in touch with your inner animal XD
but ya its all cool i was just kinda pissed about that one guy usually people dont get to me but in this case the dude was 23 talking like a 10 yr old acting like he knew me and bragging it was not cool especially when your baked lol

[Haloth]

Agreed, far too much judging within the fandom sometimes. But it can't be helped in some cases.

It is Human nature to judge and be judged alike.   We all do it.    The real trick is how you use this nature, and how to react to it in turn.

So it safe to say that it can't be helped, period. 


The only thing you can do is have a stiff upper lip and handle society in stride.

Well now that I have thought about it, suicide is another option. ( Not that I am suggesting that ) :P