Dear Future Spouse!

[SharpCoyote]

Dear future spouse ...

I may love our dog
more than I love you
...
please, try to not take it too personally.

[Kylnncryth]

I do not fall into the traditionalist mindset, but for the sake of funsies I'll indulge in a bit o' fantasy. :D

Dear future spouse...
Be knowledgeable in: Zoology, Malacology and Teuthology.  There will be several pop quizzes.
You must have a very sick, twisted, dark and morbid sense of humour. Yes I am 'THAT' kind of guy.
You have a duty to use the 'nerf bat of spousal insanity' when I lose touch with reality... so let me have it when I seem like I have dived deep into the abyssal fathoms of unreality.   

[Fuzzy Wizard]

Quizzes are just silly i'm all about the practical exam.

Dear Future Husband/Wife respectively.

Don't be boring
Don't be judgemental
Be Yourself

[CassidyCivet]

Hmm, interesting.

Dear Future Partner;

Make me enjoy being around you.
Make it so I never wanna be away from you.
And make me feel valuable to you.

[Foxys]

Being away from each other is called privacy.

Dear future... hm... husband/wife... partner (?):

Be my best friend;
Keep me on my toes and push me forward. I'll do the same to you;
Tell the truth;

[00ACE00]

Dear future spouse ...

I may love our dog
more than I love you
...
please, try to not take it too personally.

LOL that was beautiful.

[Freezie]

I guess I have to disagree with something as per OP's guidelines but.. Honestly don't really disagree with you there at all.. Maybe the push forward if it's done abruptly and not gently would be a no but eh.

Dear future spouse:
- Please just want me and only me, I need your attention.
- Be super cute. Or kinda cute.
- Love me for who I am as I would love you for who you are.
.foreveralone. xD

[Kithop]

Ha - this is kind of cute.

Dear future spouse (wife?),

• We've all been through rough patches; know what I'm going through and support me, and I will do my best to return it.
• Understand and defuse me.  When I get upset over something, hugs and reminding me to breathe work wonders.
• Talk to me.  Whether it be as simple as how your day was, or as complex as needing to vent.  Conversely, understand that I will want to offer solutions, even if all you need is an ear; remind me to be a good listener.
• Cuddle me.  There is no quicker way to soothe our stress than to spend an afternoon, or a whole day, in our pyjamas on the couch.  I'm introverted and constantly need to recharge my batteries.
• Be my partner.  Being an adult is easier when you're part of a team - I love to cook, but I need the push to do it sometimes.  I will gladly clean or tidy something that bothers you, if only you ask nicely.  Similarly, help me when I truly need it - my health limits me more than I want it to.
• Respect my hobbies and passions, even if we don't share them.  I nerd out with computers and get lost in them for days at a time, but you'll have someone to play games with.  I have a burning passion for music - creating and performing; I may run myself ragged, have friends and bandmates over to jam, but you'll also get those private little performances with just me and my guitar.  Conversely, I can't draw, paint, or create other art worth a damn, but I'll support you if you do.
• Let me have my bubble.  Sometimes I really need to retreat for a while - despite my rockstar aspirations, deep down I'm still an introvert with anxiety issues.  I have to be really passionate and excited to temporarily shove those aside; forcing me to do something I don't want to can end poorly for both of us.
• Love me for who I am.  It's taken me a long time to get here, and I'm the sum of a number of experiences that may take me time to share (or even properly articulate).  Even if I want to change, neither of us should have to.

Edit: Apparently I need to read better because this is a lot more than 3. XD