The end.

Started by Coal Silvermuzzle, May 02, 2012, 05:14:22 PM

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Coal Silvermuzzle

http://www.bcfurries.com/forum/index.php?action=profile;u=295

[admin]I had to edit this, some people were getting personally unsettled by a link to their own profile. The original intent was for Coal to link to a comment on his own profile. --RainRat[/admin]

Odd rain rat how did that happen? sorry guys, don't know why it linked to your own profile. that would have freaked me out also.
Past Chairfur and founder of Vancouver's 1st Furry Convention

ravewoif

I've always been told to never look a life behind a window to go outside and join the world, but what about the world behind that window makes the outside so much better?

kohl


Sikkab

omg why are you linking me to my profile?

Renwaldo

Quote from: Sikkab on May 02, 2012, 05:42:38 PM
omg why are you linking me to my profile?
It's all your fault! > : C

YOU DIDN'T WISH HIM A HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

You miserable little fuck!!!!

D 8 <

hurffox

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Tonk

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Quote from: Sikkab on May 02, 2012, 05:42:38 PM
omg why are you linking me to my profile?

Don't play dumb we all know what you did >:(...


Edit: Just for the record i didn't know there was something serious going on. I wouldn't have made a post joking around if i had know what this was about.

Sikkab

Quote from: Tonk on May 02, 2012, 06:10:05 PM
Don't play dumb we all know what you did >:(...
>________>

That's not suitable for a public forum. :x

Aphinity

Coal.. I'm really sorry to hear this.  I have tried my best throughout the past year and a half to find a common ground for everyone on staff, but I fear there were battles going on for you that nobody but you could resolve.  I see now you have not been able to resolve them.  I'm truly sorry to hear you are thinking of leaving, and I hope there's some way I can help in some way.  You know I'm here for you and always have been. 

We had our arguments, as any coworkers do, but without you, VancouFur would never have happened, and that's a fact.  It takes guts to bring an idea forward and push it to completion, and you did that, to the best of your ability.  You started the movement and will always have that to be proud of.

There is no I in team, but there is no team without it's members.  You will be missed, honestly.
-Aphinity

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Kitten

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Edit: Nasty Comment from poster removed

That is a completely uncalled for comment.

With him being over the age of 40 in a fandom populated by 20 somethings is hard.  Anything he did/does gets categorized wrongly.  His actions are based on being from a different generation and thus things that are meant to be kind or innocent are mistaken.  He is not a pedophile.


Are you really leaving because you didn't make it automatically on to the Board?  The fandom is fickle and they always play favorites.  Way to take offence to something that happens in the real world too.  "Used and Abused"?  Really?  You weren't used and abused!  OH GOD someone didn't agree with you, or someone didn't like how you did somethings.  Come on, tell me how were you "used and abused"?  I see you got some fame for VancouFur.  But if you're calling the work you did for that "used and abused" then DUH!!!  You haven't ever been to a con before other then that one AND this was your first time volunteering!  So of course it was HARD.  You would have been right if NO ONE gave you credit.  So noone wants an appointed board of directors, that doesn't mean they don't want you on there.  It just means they want you on there fair and square.  Seeing you quit after tieing for the last spot on the board, robs you of the little respect I had for you.  Yeah I had some respect now you don't need it because you've obviously chickened out.  Good Job.
Kitten, Alex
"Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity" ~Robert A. Heinlein & Robert J. Hanlon

AeroShade

yay Drama, *facepaws* why i am hardly on...

Coal Silvermuzzle

So you have seen some of the comments that were posted here. One would think you would understand why, hope you do. Phin it is not just about the convention, but when i have close friends from other parts of the world contacting me and asking me "is this true?". Not to mention some other people not so friendly asking the same question, well then. So I will just go crawl back under the rock a good many think I came.

I don't think I have been inappropriate, other then a raising a few hackles and questions. If the community thinks my hugs, scritiches and cuddles were inappropriate, then I apologize. I have not done anything, with anyone who was not legal, wanted to or said no. I have asked, and been asked by persons for cuddles and if cuddles is all they wanted that was all they got.
Past Chairfur and founder of Vancouver's 1st Furry Convention

Akonite

Guys, please be civil on the Forums. I know most of you are better people than that. If you have an issue with someone I would hope you would have the decency to speak to them one on one instead of making one and done comments on a forum.

Aside from that,

Coal, I'm sorry to see you go. Regardless of people's personal feelings I don't think it can be argued that you didn't have a passion for our community. Safe journeys to you.

FurryJackman

To those confused:

http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/3422255/

From my observation, you were given the opportunity to be yourself. Perhaps I don't know the inner struggles, but I totally understand taking too many hits and feeling absolutely awful from a progressive increase in negative events. When things get rough, it's OK to tune out.

Sepiaa

Coal, you and I have had our few issues, but I am glad to say that you have been my friend. You have shown me nothing but kindness and I'm sorry to see you go, I hope one day you will see the overwhelming love, understanding, and respect from our community that ive experienced. And I hope they will see it from you.