Was I really that wrong

Drake Wingfire · April 27, 2012, 08:20:27 PM

Quote from: ravewoif on April 27, 2012, 06:42:16 PM
Well sadly generalizations exist for a reason. True that not all girls are vicious just as not all guys are assholes, but the trends exists in both genders whether or not it applies to everyone. Though I guess what I should have said was immature girls are vicious just as immature boys are assholes.

Well, like they say "behind every stereotype is a grain of truth" I focused more on that side in my argument because the "not everyone is like that" argument is so expected that is really just common sense. I find it funny that for a very gay guy I still have more of a guy mentality, maybe not interests, but you know what I mean.

Wereman · April 28, 2012, 11:23:43 AM

Generalization is a grey area, for certain facts do not apply to everyone in a certain group, be it gender, ethnicity or lifestyle. In addition, most of us dislike to be put in categories and as time goes on you always will find individuals in a category act differently.

When Breakups took place in the past I often initiated it, hence being more solitary. It leaves you with a bitter feeling, but as it was mentioned before, better address/initiate it before the damage gets worse. It looks you did the right thing, when she stormed off you did not have the time to give a reason. Everyone reacts differently at news like this.

ravewoif · April 29, 2012, 01:59:16 AM

The fucking bitch just egged my house. Haha mature my ass, and after trying to settle it like normal people. I though we made great progress

Tef · April 29, 2012, 12:23:21 PM

File her in for vandalism upon your property, you might make a few quick bucks from the compensation fees.

ravewoif · April 29, 2012, 02:37:46 PM

As much as I would like to I have no real proof that it was her and also considering that only two people actually know where I live, it might have just been some rowdy teenagers. Though the fact that it was all concentrated around my window and was right after she completely stopped talking to me makes her the prime suspect.

Drake Wingfire · April 30, 2012, 10:42:32 AM

Boyfriend breaks up with you: Insult him, vandalize his property and act like a bitch in the hopes of winning him back. Girl logic lol

Wereman · May 01, 2012, 07:05:48 PM

This is unfortunately one example of females who act extremely out of the norm. A small segment that acts inappropriate that makes the whole crowd look bad. Sorry you have to deal with that if it is really her, quite immature.

One option is to wait it out and keep distance even after she has calmed down. But the challenge here seems you have the same circle of friends. So throwing rumors and such will last for a while.

Drake Wingfire · May 02, 2012, 06:47:38 PM

Well, rumors will only get people so far. In the end who are people gonna believe, the bitter person saying what ever they can to try and "ruin" the other person. Or the one who just calmly explains things.

But I share the same sentiment, you are pretty much stuck waiting it out unless you catch the person in the act and sadly have to get the police involved.

ravewoif · May 02, 2012, 08:40:06 PM

Well lucky I have only a month and a half left and I'll never see her again

Slyther · May 09, 2012, 07:17:51 PM

From how she's reacted to the break-up (Not including the egging, though that makes it even worse if it was her) it seems like you absolutely made the right choice, if she's acting like this now just think about long-term issues you guys may have had.

And a statement I read very recently seems to fit here: If one has to describe them self as mature they usually aren't.