Coming Out Stories? xD

Started by OhThatBrad, September 23, 2010, 02:12:46 PM

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OhThatBrad

I'm curious, has anybody here come out of the closet to their family, friends, etc??
If you have i wanna hear the story right meow~!
if Not, tell me why, :3

I came out to My entire family sort of all at once, but they were pretty much fine with it, my Dad told me he'd always love me and he could never hate me for anything, which was releiving. My sister likes it cause apparently we can boy watch. ._.
My mom quoted "It's Disgusting". xD.. but i still love her anyways.

So, what about your coming out stories?


Van_Fox

None of my RL friends or family know Im bi =3 and id like to keep it that way.

Lune

Mine is more a cop out I guess.

I buried myself in school and work so I did not have to confront any sexual and relationship issues.  After achieving a level of intellectual and professional success essentially dissolved my old life and started a new one on my terms.

Ya it was cutting and running but it worked and at the end results are all that mattered.
No sir, we do not approve.
http://www.disapprovingrabbits.com/

mediar

Quote from: Van_Fox on September 23, 2010, 02:13:39 PM
None of my RL friends or family know Im bi =3 and id like to keep it that way.

I am pretty much in the same boat. Boo for conservative families.

Wanna hold hands? ^^  :gay:
There are 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those that don't.

Arooo!

Van_Fox

sure 8D *holds hands and skips along*

Renwaldo

I never really came out. My mom caught me looking at gay furry porn and she told everyone else.  :-[

Blazingfoxx

my mom found out i was bi curious or bi or gay when she discovered i was flirting with the same sex at the time and she was okay with it but still wanted me to at least try  a relationship with a girl but i never did because im too insecure of myself and most girls dont take me seriously also im not really the type a girl would want although i still may consider being with a girl one day some day just right now im not a relationship type person im more for fooling around and all.
then my sister and bro found out but they to were like the same as me except they are more for relationships so they have a good open mind and are bisexual.
my dad hasnt found out but i think he does know just not saying anything about it but in away it doesn't bother me much because he cant really do or say much about it anyways considering the fact i was already discluded from his life due to his job life and such and also he recently found out about my drug abuse problems so really if he found out i was bi it wouldn't be as bad as the drug bit lol

zenia

I am no longer on speaking terms with my sister, mother and step-father... but if my mother knew I was pansexual, she would disown me anyway.

It has never come up with my grandmother, but I am sure that she would love me no matter what.

Zythren

Told a friend and it spread like wildfire, made a youtube video about it, siblings found it (that was awkward =.='), deleted video, told parents over facebook a couple years later. Good times. Notrly.
I've said and done things I regret here, so I just don't do anything instead.

MooBear

I was watching tv, my mom asked me if I was into the same gender, I replyed yes >..<
Parents don't really seem to care. They ignor it more then any thing else :P

furrybmxer

Quote from: Zythren on September 23, 2010, 08:29:56 PM
Told a friend and it spread like wildfire, made a youtube video about it, siblings found it (that was awkward =.='), deleted video, told parents over facebook a couple years later. Good times. Notrly.
i thought this one was the best lol kinda harsh and random way for poeple to find out

Icey Dominus

hmm i suspect my father, step mom, and the rest of my direct family knows including step siblings cuz they randomly make these strange gay references to me or off color jokes that they never do to anyone else. But i also think they all know me enough to know that i would be very very mad if they tried to pry it out of me or asked so they dont  say anything. If i am i wrong and i hope i am not for some reason then i hope my dad never knows cuz i am his only son and i think it would crush him if i he knew i was gay and that would crush me even more to know my father my idol was disappointed in me. All my once apon closest friends know, sadly i cant say i told my best friend personally, i had to get my ex girl friend to tell him and i regret that still because i see that as very cowardly. But i loved him and i didn't want him to know it would not have been worth destroying are friendship. My sister and mom knows, my mom dosnt mind and says she was the same, that was a HUGE surprise to me lol but it made me love my mother even more knowing that she understands and still loves me. My sister however pisses me off she said its just a stage and that i didn't know what i wanted. I took her out for a very very expensive lunch and i saw this guy i knew with the body of a Greek god and i was telling her about him and she told me to shut up and that she was not ready and did not believe me she didn't want to know anything about what i thought it hurt i was so sure she would understand but he doesn't and hurts me allot she is my only full sibling.

My fave person i came out to was another of my once of apon best friend. He had been doing allot of gay jokes and when i told him we where driving back from picking up his new car and when i told him the first thing he said was "dammit now i can use my gay jokes anymore!" he wasn't surprised no one that i told was for some reason i know they didn't expect it but none where surprised that confused me a little still does. I expected them to be shocked or something but no. The same friend that was upset about not being able to use his gay jokes anymore said i was a contradiction in every way lol made me laugh, i dont fit into any stereotype but i fit into all at the same time, totally strange.

well those are my very very few coming out stories
To love is to try, so die trying

Drake Wingfire

Oh god... my coming out was anything BUT intentional...

My fist relationship was a looong distance one, me and my first BF decided that we had to meet up and actually be together if only for one weeks time. Well he got out here and i introduced him as "that friend of a friend who I talked to" That story was believed till the second night in a row that he was sleeping in the same bed as me ^.=.^;

The reaction from everyone as predictably a shocked one my parents were mostly neutral but still didn't like that I was doing stuff under the same roof as my siblings and tempers flared as they tried to make us sleep in different rooms for the rest of his visit.

Not the most graceful of comings out I will say :-X

Thankfully no one cares these days XD

Icey Dominus

that is interesting you must have seen that coming though that they would notice you sleeping in the same bed every night?
To love is to try, so die trying

terutt

None of my family know, and most of my friends know.

It was revealed in an ill-advised drunken game of personal-secret chicken, over Pho and a mickey of cheap scotch.

"Furry" was dubbed weak sauce (apparently all of us had dabbled in it at one point or another), and quickly overshadowed by darker things.

I personally advise every friend group to do this. Mickey of scotch not mandatory, but it does help tons.