*Fur confessions*

[AMZinthos]

I have never had a boy/girlfriend.

Same here (online doesn't count :-[). Now a funny thing is since I went gay girls are so much more interested in me  :-\

[H u nn Y]

Ooooo~ I has a confession!! And you'll all think I'm crazy !! teehee ~ ;D

My mate --

is Dobie. :| (but some of you already knew that, lol)
         (^ linked to his profile)

nevermind... ): *sniffle*

[FiFi]

*hugs hunny*  girly i know your pain .*sniffles with her offering her  tissue*
 
my true secret is .. im scared of people  and recently more so since the  break up of  me and my ex .. who emtionally abused me .. and hit me over the head with a key bord servral times  till i pasted out. and im scared of be coming intimate emotionally  with any one online for fear they will turn out like him . Im a fraid that .. All furries/Dragons are like him (( i know their not but its my fear)) I shy a way from any affection  online and i  change the subject ...  but i really do crave it ... but a fraid to return it ...  am i crazy?

[Icey Dominus]

most people dont know i am BI i think maybe 7 people not including people on line. never had a bf either, girl friends sure but they made my life hell lol

[Daryll]

I love dominant people, and people that are older than me... *blush*

[Daryll]

Oh, and so no confusion is made, dominant and/or older men, not women. Sorry! I love sassy and strong women, but i tend to look at them in more a maternal sense than a sensual manner

[Wyrd-Hotd]

I have never had a boy/girlfriend.

Thirded ^.=.^

Although... it may "suck" in my eyes it means that when I/anyone else does get into a relationship, it will be all that much more special ^.=.^

[Hadlock]

ive never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend either XD

[AMZinthos]

I'm surprised actually every furry I met had at least 1 relationship before even if they are currently single (online relationships without ever meeting the partner not counting :P). I thought I was the only one in that boat.
Not like its a problem waiting for the right one is good but I gotta say sometimes it hurts  :-[.

[terutt]

Yeah, from experience, never rush into a relationship. Being single is awesome.  :birdy:

As for a confession, I've never met another furry IRL.

[Icey Dominus]

i know how you feel AMZinthos sometimes its nice being single but when you really need someone to comfort and love you there is no one there it really really sucks and thats a understatement.

[Univaded_Fox]

A couple of days ago, my Fox friend tried to commit suicide, again.  The first time was last November when he wanted to drive a kitchen knife through his chest, but he couldn't do it and wound up in hospital for a month.  This time he got into a fight with another Fursuiter whom he had just met, and he claims that he would have overdosed on his diabetic medication were it not for the intervention of another friend.  

My friend lives in Edmonton, so I have no way of reaching him in a timely manner, or being there to offer him physical support.  We have known each other for two years now and are almost as close as brothers.  He is in a terrible state.  He has not worked since the first attempt, and I do not know what he does with himself all week because he never claims to have the will to do anything.  He claims the first time was caused by the medication he was taking having affected his emotions.  But I know that he is bipolar and OCD.  He had been unable to go fursuiting on Halloween for the first time in years and was devastated.  When my friend Fursuits, he is on top of the world; he claims it is one of the few things in life that makes him truly happy.  The rest of the time he is miserable; he always says he feels rotten whenever I ask how he is doing, especially if he has not been able to go fursuiting that weekend.  When he cannot do what he wants to do, his OCD kicks in.  Everything has to be his way, and this often makes him a real challenge to talk to, because the conversation has to go exactly his way; if not he will take immediate offense and demand an apology.  If even the smallest details of his life do not go according to plan, they become inflated into gargantuan tragedies.  

Since November, I have virtually become his councilor and therapist, but he never takes to following most of the suggestions which I have offered to try and improve his life, and keep him preoccupied enough to push out suicidal thoughts.  He claims that he is too stubborn to follow them.  Why do I tolerate this?  Because beneath his furry chest lies a heart of gold capable of surprising tenderness and love even when this is not demanded.  I deeply care about this guy, enough to tell all of you, because when someone wants to die and the reasons they give you amount to being petty, that person is in dire need to help.  And I have run out of ideas.  

[zenia]

Yeah, from experience, never rush into a relationship. Being single is awesome.

Yeah, but that is easy to say when you have *had* a relationship. I might too if I ever had one. But right now it is like everyone is having a party and I am sitting outside, not invited. XD

As for a confession, I've never met another furry IRL.

I hadn't either... until yesterday. :)

[Aphinity]

Despite me personally believing and expressing to others how I don't feel furry is entirely about sex or fetishes... I personally first found furry because of my exploration of sex and fetishes.

(although I didn't get into the community until I realized that it was more than that)

[Zen]

You're not alone on that one, Aphinity.  I also found the fandom though my own interests.  I know that's only a portion of it, and anything, but it's how I got into the fandom.  (I can rant for a long time about fetishes and sexuality, and how people completely misunderstand them both.)