I would love to know something !

[BellaFluffyPuppy]

Hey so i kinda have to ask a question, THIS MAY SOUND WERID OR kind of annoying but i feel like i dunno i dont think anyone really likes me >.< on here, I WANNA KNOOOOW WHY!!!!!!!!! :S i ment i get people who will say hey and have a small convo but only a few and NoOne really wants to be friends, i still wanna know why i mean i put Bella on and people are more friendly and talkive and but .... when shes off, i dunno i really just think no one likes me and right away i think its my age or my looks or both... i feel really akward in about going to events or well just sush and a few speical i cuz my age but still :S  ??? ??? ??? im confused all i really want friends and i guess it is hard for me as well i havent been around people much for years ive always been one of those people that hides never leaving my house mainly ive always been bullied im sure there are people who relate  its only beem this summer for me trying to like and be around people growing up animals were my friends and still are any day over people but i wanna change that i cant live with out people speically i need to belong somewhere..... i am missing being around people that care i mean i dont live or talk to family and the lady i live with is more like a roomate that you dont connect with and i mean i wanna find a group i can be like these people are like family ! ? i dont really have anything, i mean Bella is my best and only friend and i do love her to bits because shes that happy loved fur i want wish i was :) and i also want to be clear I ONLY JOINED THE FORUMS FOR FRIENDS and to clear up what i said on my profile that people mistook YES i came from a different community that i was kicked out of ONLY BECAUSE it was the BD/SM commuinty because i am 16 and i told them i was 18 because i really wanted to find people that i stuff in common with and i did i fell in love with everyone and i was only in it a 3 months and i was events and alots more and everyone knew Bella the furry in that com. and then i told someone my age and a week to later everyone knew and i CRIED MY EYES out and alot of people said they were going to be there i dont talk to any of them anymore and then i google furries and i found BCfurries hoping to be in a group again but i just feel like no one likes me and
id like to know why and if i can change it in anyway I WILL !! well i cant change being ugly or not being super great art or know how to sew better or know more about video games but id really like more of a chance ?

[z00p]

This is why I only go to events if I have someone to go with. Cause I suck at keeping conversation :D

You're doing fine.  Just initiate the conversations and don't expect people to come up and talk to you for no raisin.  Because, you know, they might be intimidated by you too!

[Kowoto (コ ヲ ト)]

There is nothing wrong with you.

its still bit early for ppl to kno you that well, so just give it some time.

just keep calm and be patient.

[BellaFluffyPuppy]

hope so!

[Esshtrait]

Bella, you have my skype!
Go ahead a feel free to talk. Will always be happy to reply to you anytime!
Have a great day!

[Neox]

The tricky part about this specific arm of the community is that you have to understand you are entering into a group that already has well-established circles of friends and cliques. You're not going to be readily accepted into every group right off the bat. It took me 3 years of going to random hangouts and parties to even MEET the people I'm friends with now. I still had fun along the way, made a lot of other good friends. But the group that I actually consistently hang out with took a long time to get to know me.

I believe I met you briefly at Howl, kinda after Saturday night was starting to wind-down and everyone was retreating to their rooms. I didn't notice anything wrong with you; though you were very quiet. Those little room parties are one of the best ways to get to know people, though. They're small and quite a bit more personal. You'll quickly figure out who you want to get to know the more you attend small meet-ups like those.

[BellaFluffyPuppy]

yes you did me i was the ONE stranger in ur room and O_O  :-3 alsos the stanger fur on the skype chat  , and thanks i guess sooo, i just need to remind myself everything takes time  its hard tho :P

[Sevrin]

The people not liking you thing is most likely in your head, but even if someone doesn't like you, that is their problem not yours.

[Choco]

I think your doing just fine when your new it does take time for things to develop. keep coming to various events and so long as you don't create a problem for the host/other attendees which I don't think you will so you should be fine.

I know I only just met you at Howl. Usually when you first meet people in this group it's abit slow because they don't know your boundries and the same goes for you

[Kai-Wolf]

Aw, Bella. I'm sure there's nothing to worry about. Just join the conversations and things will flow from there!

As a matter of fact, I think hardly anyone at Howl knew me yet. So you weren't the only stranger  :P I just don't let it bother me. I figure familiarity will come with time, for now, enjoy the fact that you belong equally in any group!

[willow]

 :-3 Nothing wrong with you.... Hey I have not even built up the nerv to go to events! So you are doing much better then me...   

[zadow sunfire]

I've been around close to 3 years and there is still a lot of people I don't talk too and besides people talk to you at sushi :3

[Wereman]

The above is good advise, noticing you at Howl your statement comes across as a surprise. Yet to be welcomed into any of the individual groups it takes time. Heck, there even have been moments where I had to step back for some of my movements were too bold.

One approach is to do introduce yourself and interact with other furries. Remain a little reserved and open to anything that comes your way and as mentioned previously, be patient.