Alright, I've invented a forum game!
I call it, "Dear Future Spouse!"
The idea of this game is like this, I will list three things that my future spouse has to do to keep me happy, and then whoever comments after me has to take one that they disagree with, and tell us why, and then they write their own three, and it will continue like that!
Alright!
Dear Future Husband!
-Let me sleep for as long as I want!
-Please be a furry!
-Play video games with me!
I disagree about sleeping in until I want - I'd want him to drag me out of bed and get me on track each morning when I can't myself.
Dear Future Husband (or possibly wife):
- Prepare some catfeine for me each morning
- Talk to me all you can when I seem bored
- Be interested in my random hobbies!
I don't want catfeine in the morning, my stomach can't handle large volumes of cat hair
Dear Future Whatever
- Push me outside my comfort zone
- Be smart
- Smack me upside the face area when I start thinking too much
I wouldn't want someone to smack me when I'm thinking, especially if it was about cars, I'd freak
Dear Future wife
- cook for me
-Love me as there was no tomorrow
-have a passion for music or cars like me
Dear future whomever:
-Game with me
-Be a funny person at least as little bit
-Don't be thin
: Wolf Marine October 26, 2012, 12:42:57 -06:00
Dear future whomever:
-Game with me
-Be a funny person at least as little bit
-Don't be thin
hello ;D
Dear future someone my hopes are that you:
Surprise me and Keep going even if I look or say uncomfortable with whatever you are doing [bamboo is my safety word]
Don't yell at me
Game
Watch a movie with me
Tell me the truth, if you're bored, if I'm doing something wrong, etc.
Snowboard or try to learn from me
Have a steady income, as well as I
Make me laugh, make me cry
Don't anger me, I may seem "cute" and cuddly but I will rip a face off
Fill me with joy
Grab and touch me whenever and let me do the same.
No addictive drugs
Be in solitary at times with me
Provide me infinite information as I like to learn
Read comics and teach me all about them
Teach me things.
Take care of me when I'm ill.
Like dogs
Play an instrument or sing
Learn me some musics and car facts.
Have no limits yet be sane.
1 thing wrong for me dont make me cry, i dont wanna cry
1 - be a real sweet heart
2 - dont be a bitch or an asshole
3 - happy go lucky
to only choose three is realy realy tough.
I don't need a partner to be happy go lucky...I mean, it's not a super bad thing, but there's potential for that to clash with realist-lemur.
Dear future partner,
Please:
- Inspire me to continually better myself by way of example. In other words, act inspirationally(kindness, compassion, empathy, acceptance, et cetera)
- Know yourself, what you need/want, what you can and can't handle and communicate with me -honestly- about it all.
- "Look at me like I'm something worth holding on to", to borrow the lyric. If you don't genuinely appreciate me, then you can do better than me, and probably should.
If you can do these three things, future partner, I will go to the ends of the earth for you.
I can't...find anything wrong with the one above!
Dear future lover, partner, other half of my heart:
- Be yourself. Who you are, that is who I will love.
- Protect me when I am in weak moments, be my pillar of strength when I am weak.
- Love me for who I am. Hold me and love me for who I am.
: Star Wonder January 20, 2013, 06:56:18 -07:00
I can't...find anything wrong with the one above!
^.^
Dear Future Spouse:
Please
- Don't mind it when I get really cuddly.
- Be yourself, not some lie.
- Be happy.
I hate camping. Screw the tent! ;D
Dear Future Esposa (wife)
Be Yourself - I want to fall in love with you, your passions, your quirks. Not the person you pretend to be.
Follow Your Passions in Life - Theres a good chance we share the same ones.
Hate Spiders - Every man needs to feel important, like when he's asked to kill a spider or throw it outside. ;)
Hate Spiders? They've got those weird legs, but I wouldn't wish death on one...
Dear Future Husband
I really like eating things, I hope you like eating things too.
I sleep half though the day, and stay up during the night, deal with it... or wake me up.
I enjoying exploring and finding cool plants, and rare flowers, we should do that.
Not into people who sleep forever :p no affence
Dear potential husband
1) be there for me when I need you
When I'm down and am having troubles
Getting through
2) you have to be open, to try new
Things, laugh at weird things we do
Be comfortable so ya be open
3) Love to dance!! Ya Gata dance
With me :p cuz I love to dance basically
Giggles
Eh, why not this seems like fun, I'll give it a shot.
Dear Future my other half (Ladyfriend, missus, or just a good friend)
poke me with a stick when I'm being lazy and not writing/ learning to play guitar/sing
share a drink with me when it's nice out
tell me when I'm being moody
go on long trips with me to interesting places
make me do and see things I never would have thought of
out up with my over active mind and my family
and lastly, were are ya?
Don't poke me with a stick, sticks are sharp and are often full of splinters
Dear future partner
1. I want love
2. Trust
3. Respect
Dear Future Husband.
1. Be an understanding and comforting person, whos easy to talk to.
2. being super smexy is optional, i'm more into actually loving someone than lust.
3. Be fun to be with, play multiplayer games with me, draw with me, play sports and go on trips with me.
4 Be a furry :)
dear future wife.
WHERE are you???, i must of lost you in the traffic of life, tell you what, meet me on the corner of 'i`m shy' and 'you be direct', at that right time.
Dear man, where are you? This little charr, she needs love too! Make me laugh, be loyal, be there to cuddle, be my furry rock to lean on.
My future prince charming ♡
-love me for who I am and not what I could be.
-be okay with my random crazy loving collie Lolita moments
-all is knowing I have someone that's mine that I love with all my heart and that this border collie can cuddle up with :3
-my biggest wish is being a family, I never got too with my mom and now I'm able to create my own !! And I can't wait for him to be in it
ps he better be okay with a million dogs
.....me sitting too long trying to pick something criticize.. i cannot do it..just cant. U/U
i'll give it a go..
dear my future mate to be..
1.i want this to be the person i raise puppies with.
2.i want to fall in love..and still keep falling for this person in my life
3. i..want them to be a furry U//U I want them to take me to conventions where we can go suiting and make couple cosplays together with our friends
4)for good luck =3 ..i want it to be an experience where im learning more as im with this person..skills..personal traits..beliefs..even my own ideas..
**curls up with sweet ice tea**
Lol wasn't this supposed to have only three reasons? Oh well, four it is. :roll:
So I have to criticize at the beginning huh? Gah.. I don't really want to but..
I have to say they don't necessarily have to be a furry, as long as they're accepting of what I'm into.
okay so!
Dear future partner..
1) Please care and trust me for who I am and don't judge people by looks
2) Be prepared for some unnecessary affection *^^*
3) Please be accepting of my hobbies, or better yet... Into them!
4) And please tolerate how flustered I can get at times. >~>
Hmmm this is interesting, so here goes.
Dear future husband.. or fiance or whatever
1. Please try not to be a smoker or a drinker, please just be yourself don't do it because some folk thinks it makes them look cool.
2. Bring me up when I am really really down. Teach me true widsom, things that will aid me in life, and I will reward you with genuine love..
3. Don't be one of those really perverted guys who only want one freakin' thing. You know what I'm talking about I can't tell you how many times people have tried to do that crap, nuh uh. What that means is BE a gentleman, or else.
4. Be compassionate to others (but be careful with who) have a good head on your shoulders. Be good in heart and soul, mean everything you say just be GENUINE! I'm pretty sure everyone knows what I'm talking about... someone who is REAL. One who is not like the rest, and KNOWS it! Ahem... well, that's just an ideal kind of mate, anyway. Probably not going to ever happen but I won't dwell on it, I got bigger problems.
*Does some randomly fancy Samurai sword move to end the awkwardness* Fwoop! Anyhow, I hope you all find that special someone!
"4. Be compassionate to others (but be careful with who) have a good head on your shoulders. Be good in heart and soul, mean everything you say just be GENUINE! I'm pretty sure everyone knows what I'm talking about... someone who is REAL. One who is not like the rest, and KNOWS it! Ahem... well, that's just an ideal kind of mate, anyway. Probably not going to ever happen but I won't dwell on it, I got bigger problems."
At times you gotta be bad to progress yourself and those around you. There's two sides of a coin, but both are connected, one feeds off the other. Just hope that you can learn a lesson from both of them.
Mine.
Dear Future Spouse...
1: Keep Studying.
2: Don't be bigoted.
3: Bail me out of Canterlot Jail.
dear future spouse:
1. Exist.
^ that's a really good start
**begins a slow clap**......we've lost the game
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Dear Future spouse:
1. Consider me a dominant character in your game.
2. Don't give up your own dreams to satisfy mine.
3. Evolve from every bad and good experience that is brought upon you.
: professor whovianart August 15, 2014, 03:03:58 -06:00
dear future wife.
WHERE are you???, i must of lost you in the traffic of life, tell you what, meet me on the corner of 'i`m shy' and 'you be direct', at that right time.
I'M RIGHT HERE!!!!
: Mallory October 27, 2015, 02:50:36 -06:00
I'M RIGHT HERE!!!!
greetings oh lovely feline, at long last we have met up.
Dear future spouse ...
I may love our dog
more than I love you
...
please, try to not take it too personally.
I do not fall into the traditionalist mindset, but for the sake of funsies I'll indulge in a bit o' fantasy. :D
Dear future spouse...
Be knowledgeable in: Zoology, Malacology and Teuthology. There will be several pop quizzes.
You must have a very sick, twisted, dark and morbid sense of humour. Yes I am 'THAT' kind of guy.
You have a duty to use the 'nerf bat of spousal insanity' when I lose touch with reality... so let me have it when I seem like I have dived deep into the abyssal fathoms of unreality.
Quizzes are just silly i'm all about the practical exam.
Dear Future Husband/Wife respectively.
Don't be boring
Don't be judgemental
Be Yourself
Hmm, interesting.
Dear Future Partner;
Make me enjoy being around you.
Make it so I never wanna be away from you.
And make me feel valuable to you.
Being away from each other is called privacy.
Dear future... hm... husband/wife... partner (?):
Be my best friend;
Keep me on my toes and push me forward. I'll do the same to you;
Tell the truth;
: SharpCoyote October 30, 2015, 11:02:51 -06:00
Dear future spouse ...
I may love our dog
more than I love you
...
please, try to not take it too personally.
LOL that was beautiful.
I guess I have to disagree with something as per OP's guidelines but.. Honestly don't really disagree with you there at all.. Maybe the push forward if it's done abruptly and not gently would be a no but eh.
Dear future spouse:
- Please just want me and only me, I need your attention.
- Be super cute. Or kinda cute.
- Love me for who I am as I would love you for who you are.
.foreveralone. xD
Ha - this is kind of cute.
Dear future spouse (wife?),
- We've all been through rough patches; know what I'm going through and support me, and I will do my best to return it.
- Understand and defuse me. When I get upset over something, hugs and reminding me to breathe work wonders.
- Talk to me. Whether it be as simple as how your day was, or as complex as needing to vent. Conversely, understand that I will want to offer solutions, even if all you need is an ear; remind me to be a good listener.
- Cuddle me. There is no quicker way to soothe our stress than to spend an afternoon, or a whole day, in our pyjamas on the couch. I'm introverted and constantly need to recharge my batteries.
- Be my partner. Being an adult is easier when you're part of a team - I love to cook, but I need the push to do it sometimes. I will gladly clean or tidy something that bothers you, if only you ask nicely. Similarly, help me when I truly need it - my health limits me more than I want it to.
- Respect my hobbies and passions, even if we don't share them. I nerd out with computers and get lost in them for days at a time, but you'll have someone to play games with. I have a burning passion for music - creating and performing; I may run myself ragged, have friends and bandmates over to jam, but you'll also get those private little performances with just me and my guitar. Conversely, I can't draw, paint, or create other art worth a damn, but I'll support you if you do.
- Let me have my bubble. Sometimes I really need to retreat for a while - despite my rockstar aspirations, deep down I'm still an introvert with anxiety issues. I have to be really passionate and excited to temporarily shove those aside; forcing me to do something I don't want to can end poorly for both of us.
- Love me for who I am. It's taken me a long time to get here, and I'm the sum of a number of experiences that may take me time to share (or even properly articulate). Even if I want to change, neither of us should have to.
Edit: Apparently I need to read better because this is a lot more than 3. XD