Hi!
Okay, so this has been haunting me FOREVER. hnng.
I've never had a boyfriend longer than a week.
NEVER. :T
I'm not sure if it's because i'm not likeable or if i'm just toooo picky or if all the good ones are taken or whatever..
But yeah.
My dilemma?
Where the hell are all the decent men at!
It kind of seems like nobody wants me. xDD..
I'm probably just Picky.
Well, thanks for listening to my pointless rant. c:
Don't worry, you'll find someone soon.
the worst thing you can do is try, relationships spawn out of nowhere, you can't force one.
the threefour... worst things you can do are try to get someone to like you, get jealous, try to make yourself make into something you're not, and move too fast when you find someone.
I ended up with the hottest guy in school because i just hung out with my friends and had fun instead of moping around and trying to be a tough guy at school.
(http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-bxp3zXp_fus/Tc_2Z8rL82I/AAAAAAAAArc/gDZeWmHhDNw/s1600/love.jpg)
Pretty pretty please don't you ever ever feel like you're less than F*cking perfect, because you are, you're F*cking perfect :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
*shrugs* I am 28 and am only just in my first relationship ever.
No Brad there's nothing wrong with you. :P
Relationships aren't something you can really go looking for. They come to you under the right conditions.
You have such a long future ahead of to have a romantic relationship. For now just think about yourself until the right guy appears whose worthy of your love. ;D
I'm prettty much the same in terms of not being able to find a mate. And yes, I'll admit, I can be picky, though only because truthfully if I don't have feelings for you, then they're not there plain and simple. I can't force myself to love someone if I know I don't have the right feelings to do so, it'd become a one-sided relationship and it wouldn't be fair to either or us, especially to whom it may concern. I'm also not the 'perfect catch' in terms of what I am as a person, I'm not slender, nor am I the prettiest in the room, so that's another thing I have to put up with, lol. Oh, and the other thing I sadly have to put up with is either the person being taken or they're gay... which really sucks for me, lol x'D But I guess until then, when the right guy comes along, I'll be here waiting.... hopefully not *too* long, lol so no, nothing's wrong with you, you just haven't met the right person yet. But don't worry, you will :)
"Nobody said it'd be easy~"
As others said, it's not really a easy thing that everyone automatically finds the perfect match, or does it for the right reasons. I think some do it out of responsibility, others do it just for lust, and others just get lucky sometimes.
Best thing you can do is keep trying/keep looking, and keep just getting yourself out there.
: H u nn Y July 19, 2011, 02:08:27 -06:00
I'm prettty much the same in terms of not being able to find a mate. And yes, I'll admit, I can be picky, though only because truthfully if I don't have feelings for you, then they're not there plain and simple. I can't force myself to love someone if I know I don't have the right feelings to do so, it'd become a one-sided relationship and it wouldn't be fair to either or us, especially to whom it may concern. I'm also not the 'perfect catch' in terms of what I am as a person, I'm not slender, nor am I the prettiest in the room, so that's another thing I have to put up with, lol. Oh, and the other thing I sadly have to put up with is either the person being taken or they're gay... which really sucks for me, lol x'D But I guess until then, when the right guy comes along, I'll be here waiting.... hopefully not *too* long, lol so no, nothing's wrong with you, you just haven't met the right person yet. But don't worry, you will :)
hunny you have a golden personality, not everyone is a supermodel remember that. and yes you are pretty.
: zenia July 18, 2011, 08:58:52 -06:00
*shrugs* I am 28 and am only just in my first relationship ever.
I'm 20 and I've already had 2 failed relationship attempts, 2 burnt bridges, and what I think is the beginning of a new relationship with someone.
You're 17. There's nothing "wrong" you're just too young to maintain your interest on a relationship. Lust != Love
: Sairys July 20, 2011, 02:08:58 -06:00
hunny you have a golden personality, not everyone is a supermodel remember that. and yes you are pretty.
B'aww, thanks Sairys, that made my day even better with what it has been~ ^
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nothing wrong, its hard. i just went through some of the hardest times in my life, met a girl, fell completely in love (never liked anyone before this) ended being alot more then friends, but she mis-lead me into thinking we were in a relationship, she went on a date with some dude, had a party, didnt invite me, had sex with this other guy, then i find this all out later... so... sometimes its not a bad thing to wait... it sucks... but rushing into something may leave you with your heart so damaged, you worry that its irreparable, thats kinda where im at now... for i a bit i thought it must have been me, that i was no good. but thats not true. there is nothing wrong with you, you just have not met the right person.