I've noticed that alot of the beautiful ladies on this site have already found themselves some extremely lucky mates but I was wondering of there might be a few singles left out there. If your Female and single please feel free to post here .....really interested to see how many are still out there :D
We exist! :O Well...beautiful ones do anyway. XD
...oh really ..and you've never told me this before?
I'm a female, still single... been this way for quite a while... *sigh*
(I don't exactly consider myself pretty, and nobody's ever convinced me that I am..
(http://i790.photobucket.com/albums/yy190/waruXmono/forever-alone.jpg)
(lol)
'm a female, still single... been this way for quite a while... *sigh*
(I don't exactly consider myself pretty, and nobody's ever convinced me that I am..
http://i790.photobucket.com/albums/yy190/waruXmono/forever-alone.jpg (http://i790.photobucket.com/albums/yy190/waruXmono/forever-alone.jpg)
I know the feeling ....maybe you might like to meet up for coffee so we can co-miserate?
: H u nn Y April 03, 2011, 11:17:06 -06:00
(I don't exactly consider myself pretty, and nobody's ever convinced me that I am...
:P Same here.
I have always been single.
yeh, I've been in relationships but noone really seems to want to stay around for long and the one night stand thing just doesn't work for me .....so I'd be a terrible player
: whitewolfy88 April 03, 2011, 11:18:49 -06:00
I know the feeling ....maybe you might like to meet up for coffee so we can co-miserate?
Sure, that sounds good to me.. :thumbs:
...and i'd never seen a pic of you to tell you your pretty ...the one in the fursuit looked good though :D
: whitewolfy88 April 03, 2011, 11:22:29 -06:00the one night stand thing just doesn't work for me.
Yeah, I tried that out and I don't like it. I would prefer to be with someone "for real."
definitely ....that's what I had been looking for but yeh, must have been looking in the wrong places
I'm a female. I'm single. I'm a furry, but you already know I'm not interested in you ;P
Oh White Wolfy... you so funny.
(http://i1090.photobucket.com/albums/i379/RenwaldoVanVeenmol/6768_1036794097780_1763311991_65864_2605830_n.jpg)
It's furry, and it is female enough! :gay:
Lets get together! ;)
dear god ren, wtf is that?
Hunny, but what about Squish? I thought you two were an item.
Yeaaah. Careful with posting up your single, you could end up with a loser trying to suck you dry if you have anything to offer...or worse. :o
: whitewolfy88 April 04, 2011, 01:40:07 -06:00
dear god ren, wtf is that?
Well it's furry. . . and it's somewhat female. . . and it is single. . .
DX
Don't you like it?
: spuug April 04, 2011, 01:58:31 -06:00
Hunny, but what about Squish? I thought you two were an item.
Uhm.. Spuug? ...Who's Squish..?? o_O
: Taiga April 04, 2011, 02:07:10 -06:00
Yeaaah. Careful with posting up your single, you could end up with a loser trying to suck you dry if you have anything to offer...or worse. :o
^ This
Trust me, ive been through more than you can imagine.
If I may comment for just a moment, if your sole criteria hinge on whether or not a potential mate is furry, you may be somewhat disappointed. Relationships truly require more than a shared hobby to survive. Develop an interpersonal connection with someone else, and for heaven's sakes, understand them as a human being; That's what you're going to be interacting with on a day to day basis, not merely their artistic persona in an online environment. In nearly a decade in fandom, I've seen that happen time and time again, regardless of the orientation involved. Heterosexual, homosexual, closed partnership, open, it's irrelevant; Never, ever form a relationship on the sole basis of "Person X is creed/political affiliation/hobby Y inclined". Form one on the basis of "Person X is appealing to me, I understand person X, and person X understands me".
I apologize for bringing this up, but the original post focuses on precisely three points, about... oh, five hundred less points of data you should understand about someone before you try to cultivate relations with them. Granted, casual sex is another matter (And one to be approached with care as a subject independent of relationships), but that's a kettle of fish to be stirred on a non-PG forum. Try simply forming interpersonal connections, before forming the intent to forge a relationship. I've yet to date anyone personally with the intention of simply dating them outright upon first meet; Haven't done so, don't plan to anytime soon; If I date again, it will be a matter of spontaneity, not purposeful pursuit.
whatever happend to appreciating being single?
: ethan April 10, 2011, 09:35:44 -06:00
whatever happend to appreciating being single?
When you've never had a relationship... I, personally, don't find being single something to celebrate. How do I know which I like more if I haven't tried both?
: zenia April 10, 2011, 10:09:52 -06:00
When you've never had a relationship... I, personally, don't find being single something to celebrate. How do I know which I like more if I haven't tried both?
Same here. There is also that extra dimension of facing rejection if you actively seek that special someone. I gave up on actively searching 2 months ago.
: zenia April 10, 2011, 10:09:52 -06:00
When you've never had a relationship... I, personally, don't find being single something to celebrate. How do I know which I like more if I haven't tried both?
i agree
and your right I dont know which I like more cause i never have been in a relationship but at the same time even trying to get into one in the past has been more than unsuccessful and lets face it rejection does suck and sometimes it hurts. but that being said id rather just wait for someone to come along thats truely worth it before i bother trying to start a first relationship. and I wouldnt call it celebrating as much as appreciation in the sense that its a beacon of hope or something for real happiness, but thats just me.
I more or less don't look around. I let people come to me. Yeah being single gets lonely, but a relationship takes away precious time from your friends. I've only been in 1 relationship and it's got as many problems as being single. Either way I try to stay neutral about whether or not I have someone.
Yeah, I have only gone after guys a few times... but have been rejected each time. Now I am shy about doing it again.
: zenia April 11, 2011, 09:48:27 -06:00
Yeah, I have only gone after guys a few times... but have been rejected each time. Now I am shy about doing it again.
I'm the exact same way, especially about the shyness.. I mostly wait for them to come to me, but no luck since my last mate... and.. it gets rather lonely when you become a "third wheel" around friends, or when another one of your friends tells you every so often that they have a new boyfriend..
again and again..! *le sigh*
But then again you cant just wait around for something that might or might not happen. If you want something then you pursue it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. We all want those story book movie romances, but the sad truth is it doesnt always come to that.
Im very blessed with a few good friends whom i can snuggle with.
But being single does often make one feel like the third wheel. And with soo many animals planning anything can be tough.
I may or may not have a different outlook on things. I lost my marriage in February, and it has given me something of a new perspective on dating and relationships in general. I was involved with my wife for four years, after a history speckled with the odd casual relationship prior. I realized that they all had one specific thing in common: A single fulcrum. Some sole point within the relation that matters pivoted upon, collapsing every time once the lever left the fulcrum. I suppose the cautionary point here, is this: If your goal is an actual relationship, as I've said before, broaden your friendship first. I do not make a habit of approaching others with the intent to seek a relationship. I'm really quite bad at forming even so much as a friendship, and unfortunately that's part of having my mind firmly rooted in autistic genetics. As ethan said, there are times in your life when it is simply best to take comfort in a solitary stretch, knowing that your peace is yours alone. I am learning to adapt. Sooner or later, I'll find stability in that state, or I'll begin dating once again, and so will most of you; Barring chance, it's a long life you're likely to lead, and age is no barrier to someone joining you later on the walk.
Well it's furry. . . and it's somewhat female. . . and it is single. . .
DX
Don't you like it?
I'd tap that ....but again .....wtf is it?
: whitewolfy88 April 11, 2011, 02:51:49 -06:00
I'd tap that ....but again .....wtf is it?
It's me in a dress and a string of mink carcasses! :D
I'm ok with being single. I don't chase after things that will find to me first.
I'm pretty weird since personally I like the feeling of being alone for long periods of time.
My art and I have had some pretty romantic dinners of one. Ive also been really busy lately.
Not saying I hate relationship or that I dislike them.
There fun while they last. c:
~~shadowwolf
: Renwaldo April 11, 2011, 05:32:15 -06:00
It's me in a dress and a string of mink carcasses! :D
That's hot.
~~Shadowwolf
: Van_Fox April 11, 2011, 11:46:08 -06:00
But then again you cant just wait around for something that might or might not happen. If you want something then you pursue it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. We all want those story book movie romances, but the sad truth is it doesnt always come to that.
Yeeeeah, but then there are people that put a list of things they are looking for in a mate in their profiles... and people like me don't like seeing things like "-Skinny" ... 'cause that rules us out right there. ;)
Britt: Thanks. :gay:
Zetta: . . . Thanks. :gay:
: zenia April 11, 2011, 07:27:12 -06:00
Yeeeeah, but then there are people that put a list of things they are looking for in a mate in their profiles... and people like me don't like seeing things like "-Skinny" ... 'cause that rules us out right there. ;)
People change man, people change.
It's hilarious how after you read what Zenia posted you changed your profile.
Change is good for alot of people. It gives you alot more options.
~~Shadowwolf
I also like the idea of girls asking guys out. Just thought I would bring this up.
I mean it's 2011. We do as we please. we are equal to guys. I don't see it happen very often.
It's cute, But girls are discouraged when guys make lists.
Don't get me wrong, I still like the old fashion guys asking the girls.
Also I thought this was cool.
http://www.bcfurries.com/forum/index.php?topic=3529.msg48559#new (http://www.bcfurries.com/forum/index.php?topic=3529.msg48559#new)
Check out the second vid posted.
~~shadowwolf
: Brittany-shadowwolf April 11, 2011, 08:29:11 -06:00Check out the second vid posted.
Yeah, saw that one this morning. I really liked it and I thought about it all day!
: zenia April 11, 2011, 08:35:06 -06:00
Yeah, saw that one this morning. I really liked it and I thought about it all day!
His words kind of stick with you don't they?
He's a great writer and a speaker. c:
~~shadowwolf
: Selkit April 11, 2011, 12:14:33 -06:00I'm really quite bad at forming even so much as a friendship, and unfortunately that's part of having my mind firmly rooted in autistic genetics. As ethan said, there are times in your life when it is simply best to take comfort in a solitary stretch, knowing that your peace is yours alone. I am learning to adapt. Sooner or later, I'll find stability in that state, or I'll begin dating once again, and so will most of you; Barring chance, it's a long life you're likely to lead, and age is no barrier to someone joining you later on the walk.
I respectfully agree with everything here, since I also have trouble keeping friendships. (same autistic roots) In my young days, bridges crumbled nearly non-stop. Nowadays, they weaken, but don't completely crumble. (AKA, after an incident, we'll be down to colleagues instead of friends)
I find apologies are a band-aid to bridges, but never the full fix. As proved recently with someone I cannot divulge.
I am thankful work in the TV Diploma keeps me diverted from soul searching, but it's going to take a lot to gain a true friend that I can keep for a VERY long time. Oh well... I guess my work is my savior for now.
Not saying I hate relationship or that I dislike them.
There fun while they last. c:
~~shadowwolf
..never quite thought of it that way but you are absolutely right ...BRILLIANT!