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General Category => Help and Advice => : FuriousPanda January 24, 2011, 12:24:37 -07:00

: Regret
: FuriousPanda January 24, 2011, 12:24:37 -07:00
Have you ever rejected anyone, and then thought about it, and wish you had taken them instead?
I'm experiencing that right now.
: Re: Regret
: zenia January 24, 2011, 12:55:25 -07:00
Nope... 'cause no one has wanted me long term.
: Re: Regret
: FuriousPanda January 24, 2011, 01:12:28 -07:00
: zenia  January 24, 2011, 12:55:25 -07:00
Nope... 'cause no one has wanted me long term.

o..oh... ><
I'm sorry...
: Re: Regret
: terutt January 24, 2011, 02:36:19 -07:00
I've experienced the opposite. I've accepted someone into my life, despite my initial impressions, only to regret it for almost half a year.

I've often found that your first instincts of people exist for a reason.

As an addendum. Don't give up. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't spend your life thinking about one white whale.
: Re: Regret
: FuriousPanda January 24, 2011, 02:40:55 -07:00
: terutt  January 24, 2011, 02:36:19 -07:00
I've experienced the opposite. I've accepted someone into my life, despite my initial impressions, only to regret it for almost half a year.

I've often found that your first instincts of people exist for a reason.

As an addendum. Don't give up. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't spend your life thinking about one white whale.

haha, thank you :3
I'll never give up~
: Re: Regret
: Moonlight January 24, 2011, 02:51:50 -07:00
I have a similar story to that of Terutt, but I got over it a lot quicker. We're still friends, but our relationship can never be the same again.
: Re: Regret
: EmoFox January 24, 2011, 02:10:20 -07:00
: FuriousPanda  January 24, 2011, 12:24:37 -07:00
Have you ever rejected anyone, and then thought about it, and wish you had taken them instead?
I'm experiencing that right now.

Sort of... I was in a fantastic relationship when this guy I'd been crushing on for years previously admitted that he liked me. I turned him down, the relationship I was in went south... And I spent a couple of years wondering "what if". Got over it around new years actually.
: Re: Regret
: FuriousPanda January 24, 2011, 02:17:56 -07:00
: EmoFox  January 24, 2011, 02:10:20 -07:00
: FuriousPanda  January 24, 2011, 12:24:37 -07:00
Have you ever rejected anyone, and then thought about it, and wish you had taken them instead?
I'm experiencing that right now.

Sort of... I was in a fantastic relationship when this guy I'd been crushing on for years previously admitted that he liked me. I turned him down, the relationship I was in went south... And I spent a couple of years wondering "what if". Got over it around new years actually.

Ahh, I'm sorry to hear that :/
My first boyfriend used me to make another guy jealous, I've been paranoid ever since. -.-
: Re: Regret
: EmoFox January 24, 2011, 02:36:07 -07:00
oh, no, it turned out fine in the end. I went to see my "what if" guy just after new years, and don't regret it anymore, :b
The relationship I was in that went south didn't end there (they never do, haha) and things between us got worked out eventually. But I still wondered. Now I can enjoy my family in peace, without wondering, :b it really is a happy ending, XD