Some of you here know I loved fellow BC Fur Rhari (http://www.bcfurries.com/forum/index.php?action=profile;u=14) for almost a year. I just got rejected by her, not once, but twice... First, it was because "I barely know you". That's fine, I'll just arrange a date once I graduate from my TV program... 2nd, it was when she got a BF...
My 2 most recent FA submissions show my heartbreak for each rejection. Worst part is, I think I saw on her Twitter that she shows no guilt for what she did... I bet she won't even feel it if I died.
I have no contact with her now. I'm still grieving at night since that year of love made me love her with all my heart, making this rejection so much more painful for me.
Help me. I don't know how to progress since I loved her so much...
Sucks dude.
Whiskey. Good friend. Etc.
If you're serious about the suicide hint then find someone (anyone) to talk to.
Rejection sucks but it's a part of life. Learn to deal with it 'cause it wont be the only time.
I'm not alcoholic, but I do overconsume pop in place of that.
And sorry about the hint, It's my attention grabber when I feel horrible...
And I don't have any close friends of age... only family friends far older than me.
I need a more detailed plan, Right now my heart still can't give her up... She was "The One", until this happened...
Well, I am available to hang out every wednesday and friday if you need a friend.
I am in Surrey, but I don't mind transiting over to wherever you are (unless you live under a rock on Mars, then we have a problem)
Well, this'll help with my rejection: For a turn of the tides, I'm now rejecting her because she's being a total b***h and is being intolerant.
I'm looking for someone tolerant and willing to listen to how I feel. Recent tweets by her just disproved that.
If anyone knows her, let her know I'm allowing a chance to apologize and save at least a friendship. But the bridge is already weakened, so any hostility will end it all.
Blue, I'm in Burnaby, but I'm busy Wednesdays and Fridays... BCIT gets in the way...
Edit: BTW, I should be apologizing for bringing up this topic here. Not the best way to introduce myself to the forums by talking about rejection in some of my first posts here.
I saw this and did my best to piece the whole situation together based on what i could find.
ill start with her twitter posts that you linked on your Fur Affinity Account.
It seems to me like she was interested in friendship, but nothing further. her rejection is within her right and her frustration could also be expected in certain situations.
before deciding to reply to this topic i looked around and found some relative posts from early December, please take a moment to read through
http://www.bcfurries.com/forum/index.php?topic=2872.0 (http://www.bcfurries.com/forum/index.php?topic=2872.0)
My advice for you, would be to take some time to Analise future relationships before taking it to the next level, you will find some people are comfortable with your current relationship and don't want to expand.
I would also advise that you accept it when someone voices their feelings about your relationship with you.
I'm sorry your feeling down and I hope you can be happier soon.
That's one problem, my love mindset is wild, it "just does it" and doesn't care about consequences.
Aside from Twitter, we talked further through Skype IMs. That's where I always check up on her when bad stuff happens to comfort her during bad times. My love mindset took that as deep relationship.
Even now, after a little cooldown time, I now have not 1, but 2 conflicting emotions. The anger from her being intolerant is burning, while the sadness from my love mindset is still fighting with the anger for "hope".
There's a little secret about me I'm not willing to divulge on a public forum, but if you PM me, I'll say what it is.
This was my first (in my POV) deep "dream" relationship, which made it so much harder to stomach.
What ever happened to people talking about this stuff in person? :\
I was too busy with BCIT... There was one of the problems. But the only time I met her was Howloween Bowling 2009. Schooling prevented me from following up...
Jack,
I said what I had to, to get you to drop the idea that there was EVER anything more than friendship between us. You kept sending me emails about how I don't know you well enough, how you cried yourself to sleep at night, how much it hurts. I do care that you're hurting but I don't want anything more than friendship. Anyone who knows me at ALL will know that I do not like to hurt anyone, and I do my best not to, but you had to be pushed back a bit so you could appreciate that I AM serious about not having a relationship with you.
You need to back off from my life. You're not the kind of man I want. I don't mean to be "intolerant" but there are certain things every man and woman expects out of their partner and I just don't see you being able to fulfill all my needs.
I don't mind being friends again, but you need to let the idea that there might EVER be anything more, drop. Like a brick.
dude if i had the time i would type out the story of my love life here for you.
its too long to tell you but i can gave you a summery, but if you were on the island and wanted to talk in person you would get the full effect of it.
Girlfriend#1 Anna) she was the love i needed, she would always listen to my problems about my family. she knew it was hard to get your family to accept your sexuality, even if you are just bi. we dated for nine months before her dad started to drink, i was there for her knowing what its like to have abusive parents. ultimately she said i had no idea what its like the be lashed 100 times with a belt. she insulted me and became more angry every day, untill i was visiting her and found her doing heroin. after two more weeks of me trying to help her she moved with her mom to the US.
Girlfriend/ish#2 Morgan) Morgan was the most beautiful girl in my class, she was smart and caring, and to this day i still have some feelings towards her. we sat and ate lunch every day in school for almost a year, she after a while started to lean against me and hug me during the free time we spent togeather in school. at the halloween dance i told hwer i liked her and she gave me a huge hug. later i heard her telling all her friends about me, and they said things amounting to how im a "Nerd" "ugly fuckling" "jerk". ultimately she gave in and told me to go away.
Boyfriend#1 Matt) VERY personal about this, we never had sex but still
there were some more between this point but here is the latest GF
GF#17 Liz) i was so turned off girls but she was so beutiful i had to go out with her when she asked. after two dates she asked me to meet her in the girls locker room at 5 pm after school so the coach wouldent come in or anybody else. she was naked and tryed to seduce me. so i.... sad "NOOOO" and ran off.
Lesson is GIRLS ARE FUCKED UP ABOUT LOVE
im on BF#7) and i love him dearly.
did i remember to say that now im OFF girls they are all over me!!!!!!!!!!!!!
: Ember January 11, 2011, 09:05:58 -07:00
: Lt ReiStark January 11, 2011, 08:14:29 -07:00
Nonsense
Bullshit
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