(Note, Im bi, so im putting for both guys and girls, they will be mixed)
Ons:
-Skinny
-Hairless or minimun hair
-Big...dodgeballs <.<
-Long ish hair
-Bottom
-Big butt
-Pale Skin
-Any breasts size
-Glasses
-Freckles
Offs:
-Mole "beauty mark" on lip
-Big gut
-Facial Hair
-Scars
-Low self esteem
-Un-decisiveness
-Smoking (cigs and weed)
-Excessive Drinking
yours? :-3
Turn on: Foreplay.
Turn off: Complete lack of foreplay.
I have a hard time enjoying it when you simply just dive right in. The perfect orgasm is something that needs to be built up to, it requires effort and careful planning! :o
Guys:
skinny to a bit pudgy
wiry strength
Girls:
curvy
medium sized breasts
Both:
long hair (or at least long-ish)
glasses
sense of humor
niceness
I don't like shaved hair (unless it is necessary), people that are too forward, obesity (even though I am... I am trying to change myself though), people that smoke and/or drugs and people that are mean to others.
Wiry? like buff or scrawny? XD
Like, strong (especially in the upper arms), without showing it much. I hate big muscles. XD I think they look gross.
oh ok XD *looks at skeleton arms*
Ons:
-Sense of humour
-Bigger/ stronger than me... I'm pretty small, so that's not hard XD
-Tattoos & piercings
-Most importantly... a forthright and playful attitude! I was at a party once and a guy I'd never met before suddenly pounced me to the floor yelling "MEOW!!" Totally ended up dating for a while ;3
Offs:
-Too much ego
-Lots of make-up/ too "feminine" (mostly in guys)
- Doesn't like animals >:(
Here's a question to throw into the mix: Do you find you're more often attracted to people by how they look or by their personality? It's pretty rare that I see someone and think "wow, he/ she is super hot"; usually it takes a little conversation instead.
Oh, I love tattoos and piercings too. :)
If I meet someone online, then I don't think about their looks. But I have to say that if I meet someone for the first time in person, I do notice looks. It is hard not to. I might see someone in passing and think "Wow, I'd do him/her!" but after talking to them be all "OMG I wouldn't ever want to be with them!"
I have.. too many offs.. and a weird variable list of ons that differs depending on the person. I'm weird I know.
Well, i know one of my ons is cynicism 8)
I'd marry House <3
: Sabretoothed Ermine September 17, 2010, 08:21:30 -06:00
Ons:
-Sense of humour
-Bigger/ stronger than me... I'm pretty small, so that's not hard XD
-Tattoos & piercings
-Most importantly... a forthright and playful attitude! I was at a party once and a guy I'd never met before suddenly pounced me to the floor yelling "MEOW!!" Totally ended up dating for a while ;3
Offs:
-Too much ego
-Lots of make-up/ too "feminine" (mostly in guys)
- Doesn't like animals >:(
Here's a question to throw into the mix: Do you find you're more often attracted to people by how they look or by their personality? It's pretty rare that I see someone and think "wow, he/ she is super hot"; usually it takes a little conversation instead.
Pretty much this exactly. :D
turn ons
-masculine
-feminine
-skinny
-average
-little chub
-submissive
-dominant
-out going
-fun
-good sense of humour
-snuggles
-cuddles
-nice ass
-ABS
-strong
-flexible
-sensitive
-understanding
- a nice sized erm... rooster :evil:
- ample pillows
- a nice figure
-well kept
-clean
turn offs
-jerks
-pricks
-large ego
-obese
-dirty
-people that make me feel uncomfortable being around them and when they touch me makes my skin crawl(so far only one person fits this bill)
-being mean for no reason
- having a short fuse
behold the all mighty list of my turn ons that is currently up to date (it changes alot) but the turn offs stay the same... usually
Turn ons: My husband.
Okay, okay. Really, I don't think that we, as people, can really express what we look for in a mate. We can have a certain understanding of what turns us on or not, but the person you say is "Confident, witty, smart...etc" may also have issues of anxiety, depression, not look the same as you picture them...people are complex creatures.
That said, I can tell you about some of the things I've discovered that I really like, or don't like:
Turn Ons:
-Intelligence
-Passion (in general, for some aspect of life)
-Sensitivity or Caring (I've been with someone that wasn't emotionally attached...it was bad)
-Sense of humour
-Confidence in oneself enough to say "Here I am!" and not take any crap for it
Turn Offs:
-Big muscles (Ew!)
-Pity-me attitude
-Lack of spelling or grammar (I'm serious)
-Smoking
-Closed-mindedness
-Taking things too seriously
That was...difficult.
To answer Sabertoothed Ermine's question...well, I believe that I prefer personality over looks, but I will admit to be taken in by looks. Seeing my husband for the first time (way before he actually became my hubby!), I had an instant crush on him. Ah, highschool!
Also, on the topic of looks...well, I'm really fond of those little punk girls. I don't know why, and normally all I want is a man in bed, but those little punk girls make me drool! You know, with the lip pericing, and the short hair with bangs, and the little body? Bah!
I also agree with Renwaldo. :-3
Turn ons
- Muscles
- More Muscles
- Taller than 5'5"
- Short hair, Clean Shaven
- Reserved
- Tidy
- Smarts
- A dominate personality
- Confidence and a reasonably sized ego
- Most important: Can Cook
- Bonus Points: Loves touristy adventures, and photography
Turn Offs
- Indecisive
- Thin
- Femboys
- Tattoos and piercings
- Bad with money
- Superiority complexes
- Inconsistent